{"id":923,"date":"2019-09-02T11:43:50","date_gmt":"2019-09-02T18:43:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.michaelmirdad.com\/?p=923"},"modified":"2023-08-25T14:12:42","modified_gmt":"2023-08-25T21:12:42","slug":"sexual-healing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/michaelmirdad.com\/sexual-healing\/","title":{"rendered":"Sexual Healing"},"content":{"rendered":"

There is a form of healing and counseling that is effective for bringing healing and balance to our life, via our root chakra<\/strong>. Yet, despite the success of healing related to intimacy and sexuality, it is still frowned upon by so-called open-minded healers and therapists.<\/p>\n

In view of the controversy and edginess of such subjects, there are several boundaries and precautions that must be observed in order to distinguish true sexual healing (via sexual therapy) from unhealthy sexual experiences. Although many who seek to give or receive healing related to sexual issues might feel inclined to jump straight into learning sacred sexuality, it\u2019s always best to look at one\u2019s personal issues around sexuality first.<\/p>\n<\/div>

The Three Phases of Sexual Therapy<\/h4>\n

In most cases, there are three phases of sexual therapy and they should progress in this order: <\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. Counseling <\/strong><\/li>\n
  2. Contact (hands-on) Therapy <\/strong><\/li>\n
  3. Sacred Sexuality.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    The Counseling Level<\/em><\/h4>\n

    Beginning with the counseling level of healing is important as it helps us build a healthy and safe foundation for healing, as well as helping us to gather information about our internal and external sexual history\u2014positive and negative.<\/p>\n

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    The Contact Level<\/em><\/h4>\n

    This can include physical bodywork, sensual massage, and even exercises in arousal. This level is a natural progression from the counseling level and allows us to work at a deeper level\u2014literally into the tissue of the body\u2014wherein we might find cellular memory of issues and traumas.<\/p>\n

    The Sacred Sexuality Level<\/em><\/h4>\n

    This is, of course, the most controversial level because it is mistakenly assumed (by both healers and clients) that the act of sex, in itself, can be healing. But it\u2019s never the act! It\u2019s the intention and the love that is shared. In other words, sex cannot heal, but love can. The sexual level can be healing, but if we progress through the first two levels properly, the third level might never be needed (at least not from a friend or healer). And when sexual healing takes place, it must always be done slowly and within the spirit of loving respect, safety, and the desire to feel a Divine Presence.<\/p>\n<\/div>

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    Sexual Healing Is Not as Rare as We Might Imagine<\/strong><\/h4>\n

    In a sense, each of us is offering a subtle form of sexual therapy whenever we help others feel beautiful (yet not objectified)<\/strong>. Complimenting and encouraging someone\u2019s beauty or value fits the general definition of sexual therapy because such positive feedback helps them to awaken their desire to \u201cfeel alive\u201d and\/or awaken their sensual self. Such \u201crandom acts of kindness\u201d bring miracles to the recipient\u2014healing them at a level that most people fail to navigate.<\/p>\n

    Some Goals and Benefits of Sexual Therapy Include<\/strong><\/p>\n