Timeless Forgiveness Versus Time from Judgment–Short
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hello everyone this is michael mirdad here and we're doing our program we do this every friday it's called spiritual insights friday night spiritual insights with michael mirdad today we're going to talk about um i guess for a fancy title we could call it timeless forgiveness versus time of judgment and by time of judgment i don't mean judgment time i mean the judgment of time how time comes as a result of judgment feeling stressed about time so let me let me take a minute and explain all that it's
actually kind of interesting because in god there's timelessness there's just being there's no measurement of time or anything like that so that's what in a sense timeless forgiveness means forgiveness brings us back to timelessness or god on the other hand we have time time is the result of judgment so time separation limits whether it's aging limits or whether it's mortality or any other form of limit it's all the world of measurement that things take time the time whether it's karmic or whether
time is just you know a linear concept yet in god there's no linear so everything about time is really about separation and sort of mortality it's our limited universe so um you know so but there's some funny things about this in my opinion people who think that they're more advanced you know because they're supposedly living in the moment and they do things whenever they want to you know it's like they're actually lying to themselves now you know this is sometimes i get a little uh silly and and playful about these
things irreverent is what we sometimes call it but guys um that's just you know it's just lying to ourselves oh man i i don't you know i don't show up on time i don't do anything on time because i'm just in the moment it's it's you know it's just passive aggressive behavior so people are just caught up in this world they're just as caught up when they avoid doing things on time as when they're obsessive about doing things on time so you can be really strict about your time and your it shows
that you're caught up in the world of separation but you can also be avoidant of doing things on time just as messed up you know one thinks the other's messed up but they're both messed up if you think about it so being obsessive about time um it just confirms that you live in a world of tension maybe you could call it obsessiveness uh fear even aggression but it's all the same really but it's a there's a tension i must be on time what does that mean why because it it proves that i'm
it proves that i'm not you know and fill in the blank that i'm not lazy that i'm not you know that i error prone it proves that i'm i'm serious it proves that i'm what tense and obsessive i mean so it's it's a sad thing you know that people get caught up in all this so you know we end up having basically an aggressive lifestyle when we're tense and have to be on time we have not a passive in the healthy sense lifestyle when we do the opposite we have a passive aggressive lifestyle but uh yeah it's very intense
it's very aggressive gotta be on time which means i'm really strictly judging myself so i'm gonna drive fast and cut people off and so on and so on but the other person oh i just you know i'm just going to keep all the cars behind me in a line because it's a single lane highway and i'm just going to ignore them and because i'm just so mellow i'm so spiritual what you're really doing is flipping everybody off saying i'm not going to follow any rules not gods not mankind's not rules of
politeness just because i'm all that matters it's clearly passive aggressive but it's sort of a narcissistic tendency so the bottom line is that it's nearly impossible to avoid time when you're in this world i mean this is a world of time the the planet we're living on has an age right and the whole universe seemed to have an age so time is a major rule here time space continuums and this is the rules of this place so it doesn't do us any good to try to pretend that that doesn't exist you know
but spirituality is not so much trying to be measured on appearing like time doesn't doesn't matter or it doesn't control us but it's really spirituality is measured more about being guided by god not fighting time but allowing god so believe it or not god when we're guided not by time but by god you still live in time but you're guided to use time differently when you're guided by god you'll still show up on time you're going to be guided when to be somewhere when to leave well why am i being guided to leave an
hour early because you didn't know there was traffic you know so it's it's kind of i think it's kind of beautiful if you think about it god will help you to meet your deadlines you know people who tend to be late you know they're they're trying to control their environment you know but or people obsessively being on time trying to control their environment environment why because it confirms that you feel like your environment is out of control your life is out of control that's what this is about being
obsessive on time or avoidant on time about time it just confirms that you feel your life is chaotic and you're you're you're trying to control it by being on time or by not even not being on time is a control trip um yeah i know that's hard for some people to hear or believe but it's it's true your boss might be aggressive and insist that everyone be on time at work well you know man they're so aggressive and they're so controlling but being late to work is also a control trip being late to meetings is keeping people
on the hook it's a control trip it just it hooks people into being in suspended animation for your highnesses arrival and you know it's just it's not a loving gesture you know the whole concept of you have to be fashionably late why because it looks certain way you know yeah so that everybody there's enough people there for your arrival i mean that's what this is all about time is misused because time was created by separation and creation of the ego its solution is forgiveness which brings us
not out of time yet but for now it puts us in a a state of timelessness where we will end up on time but with a greater sense of ease you know a greater sense of peace about it it's really the the mindset that determines where we're at not to be on time not being on time but the mindset of whichever one you do it's the spirit with which you do it so you know that's how that goes so you know if you're if you're trying to fight time you're just going to wear yourself down you will i mean that's what happens i
don't think there's anything wrong about relaxing on the let's say the effects of time you know you you know some people they'll dye their hair they touch up their face there's nothing wrong but why doing it i don't want anybody to know i'm imperfect versus this feels nice you know there's a spirit with which we do these things so i don't think there's a problem um suspending time or whatever you know however you want to call it but the fighting time is just exhausting try
to fight time it's exhausting because it confirms that you believe you have something to fight which is time and therefore time exists which means it's going to wear you down in your body down sooner so being afraid of time isn't going to help anybody okay again there's nothing wrong with touching up and so on but it's the spirit with which we do it you know there are individuals and even cultures and regions where people are like oh time yeah well we have sedona time they call it native time some parts of
the southwest they call it island time whatever all of those are my time i'll do this when i feel like it all it is is passive aggressive i don't care what culture wants to use it as an excuse but it's bogus you know could you imagine moses trying to lead the israelites to life a new life and safety going well let's just do this on israelite time or desert time no he hears the voice of god you go that's the way it works man not obsessively but you go a great guide lives in the now and now usually means i'll do things now
not obsessively now but i'll do things now when i feel called to do them right you know it's a it's a right consciousness a guidance from god not when i get around to it not when i feel like it but more like when i feel the call now that too can get all twisted well i i don't feel the call to do my bookkeeping yet you know you're like four years behind bogus you're trying to avoid something and you know people do that they they want to use god in that whole scenario like well uh you know i'm waiting for
god to get you know and it's not god at all it's just your own ego wanting to avoid things you know so uh you know just more games um truth is when you're in touch with god you're going to generally meet deadlines you're going to generally be on time but without the anxiety of driving twice as fast to get somewhere on time you know it's like it's just kind of cool like oh yeah i mean god you know nature nature prunes its trees on time you know by bringing the winds and so forth and
nature brings the cool months at the right time nature doesn't usually say oh i didn't get around to winter and god now it's july we'll just do winter now and you know yeah it'll kind of screw up the crops and people will starve but hey you know just i guess they got to get over it no that's not nature you know that's not the mother earth and that's just a small reflection of the beauty of the divine mother universally or spiritually so you know the excuses you know or they're just
not worth anything not not to masters so you know it's like having an internal clock that organically reminds you you know oh i think it's time to do such and such generally you know following spirit gets things done on time without procrastinating it's just kind of wow cool procrastination is a form of self-destructiveness it really is i'm not saying to never say i think i'll do that tomorrow if that's truly what you need to do for your sanity for your health or whatever there's nothing wrong with occasionally
setting things to a different time that's procrastination means you tend to avoid whether it's constantly or any one thing that you're purposefully trying to escape from then it's not a healthy thing to put it off because you're trying to escape something which means it involves fear and anxiety which isn't the will of god so uh you know be a master god goddess step up and say come on really why would i be afraid of and i know we all have that you know bits of that here and there but we we just have to make it
more of a habit to step up and get things done but it's self-destructive to procrastinate it really is think about it basically i'm going to put things off so now i'll just you know just chill because i'm really a chill person no you're not you're putting things off and then the things you put off they're all building up they're all log jamming or bottlenecking and it's all going to have an effect later imagine again earth i use the example of seasons imagine if your body i think
will wait i'm just not in the mood to digest and it keeps doing that procrastinating your digestion you would be dead in short time i think we'll put off assimilating nutrients from the food oh food's gone already well you know we're on island time oh you know humans man just nutty nutty behavior all trying to excuse it as some cool thing just see through it i don't mean jump on people about it or jump on yourself just see it you know if we're going to be masters before we become god's goddesses before
we're one with god again it's in that chronology you're just a screwed up human being until you know how to put things like this in order and call them for what they are then you become a master which becomes a god-goddess and i'm not trying to promote some weird thing i mean the bible tells you ye are gods and goddesses so here we are guys but before you become that it doesn't mean your screwed up self is a god god is clearly not you've got to act like one and gods and goddesses don't
procrastinate it doesn't make sense because procrastination is fear-based and gods and goddesses wouldn't be fear-based they would be inspired based i mean just think about it makes total sense so it's nice to stay in a you know a great level of connectedness um you know when we procrastinate it's just clear that we're we're slipping into a state of unconsciousness we're slipping into a state of basically ourselves being out of control and then our lives being out of control so really what that comes back to is
if i procrastinate if i put things off if i keep you on the hook it means i'm judging you i know it sounds weird time comes from judgment so because i judge you as being less important than me you don't matter and therefore i don't need to be on time for my meeting with you or flip side i judge myself as inadequate so i make sure i'm on time obsessively you see judgment is what makes us swing into obsessive you know experiences with time or ultra passive aggressive experiences with time it's judgment on you or on me
it's still judgment so time has already in advance screwed up what we're going to experience today based on time it's going to make us late it's going to make us obsessed it's going and so on and so on um people don't generally hire people that say i'm on time because i'm plugged in you know they're gonna what do you mean you know they want you to be watching your watch they want you to you know do you are you a responsible person you know you always look perfect and presentable
and they they're going to wear you down with the stress level you won't be able to handle that but they don't mind because you'll crash like the boss did and you know die of old age at 40 and they'll just get somebody else corporations that just drain the life out of people when we're plugged in we know our soul's purpose we stay in that direction we know what soul mate relations plural looks like and we go in that direction but you get things done you know like wow you're a master you
can you can get 10 things done in the time of somebody else doing one because you're guided on how to do it i mean that's how practical spirituality can be where you you get more done it's not like oh wait i'm spiritual now they're just lying to themselves the slower you move it proves you're in the moment wow isn't that cool no that's you just don't quaaludes or you're stoned or you're whatever you know um it doesn't prove something um show me that you're so plugged in you get things done
righteously right consciously you see right consciousness on time well done effective helpful to people i mean that's that's pretty impressive so you know it's it's stay away from the judgments on ourselves and others and things will change practicing forgiveness you know instead of judgment on ourselves is like living in a state of connectedness with god it's like having a organic like i said an organic internal clock and it's like wow something happens and time to walk the dog you know it's like
it's like being in a sense really good as a psychic except it's now is the time i need to walk the dog what was that about you run in just the right person for the right conversation oh time to feel uh fill the bird feeders oh time to pick up the kids at school oh i want to tell you i love you time to tell you i love you oh trim roses prepare dinner just like wow you know and yet on your way to the kitchen to prepare your dinner you notice a plant doesn't have water in it so you put your food on before you
forget you get the water put that in while the food's cooking you're watering your plant i love the plant i want it to thrive giving it some water it's just beautiful just a beautiful exchange it's this beautiful efficiency so you know believe it or not being in the now um to me makes life more efficient but just not in that tense form of human efficiency it's more like well there's no log jams there's no because nobody wants to go there i don't want to know what i haven't done today
which is the procrastination addiction because i just know it's lots of stuff which is my stuff my judgments on myself or others have backed up as a log jam of of jobs or chores or tasks or whatever that i need to do that i don't want to do i don't want to do them because i judge them or judge you or judge myself as weak you know as as being controlled by the world so i have to prove something that i'm not controlled by not doing anything you know i want to get my life back i want to prove that um you know
i to myself that you know i i deserve something but you're not when you're fighting to prove that you deserve some peace and quiet time but you're not getting things done you're actually destroying your tomorrow no i just needed quiet today right and today now became tomorrow the jobs that didn't get done today are there tomorrow is that a problem no with god i need a break today is fine god will find a way to help you enter tomorrow and dismantle things it'll help you find an efficient way to
knock off several things in one at a time or in a cluster because it'll be efficient you'll be guided on how to deal with that just like any other miracle that you have but if you keep drinking acid in your system and drano and it ruins your insides how could you be shocked by that well god's gonna help me again and again and again and again you can't keep destroying your life physically emotionally mentally and keep saying catch me while i fall it's not how this works you have to take responsibility so
if you create a log jam of stuff the deadlines are still there they just there's now more of them so you know i would just say find you you know a way to plug into miracle-mindedness miracle consciousness you know plug into the presence of god and trust your deservability you know it's okay let me get some things done today and if you really think i do i have these limits on my health and self and so on if you really feel that way don't make lunch appointments then oh but i have to because my friend don't
think i don't like him but you didn't show up just be honest and you know i'm not feeling well and i need some time don't make the appointments you know don't take the jobs don't take on the tasks or whatever it happens to be if you're not going to do them don't have a relationship if you can't remember to occasionally let people know you care about them you know let let spirit guide you just it's so beautiful don't have kids if you can't care for them show up balanced love
practicality love practicality i love you so i'll show up to be on time with you and for you i love myself so i'll take care and show up for myself too i'll show up for my chiropractic appointment my massage i'll remember to book one you know whatever the case may be you know lots to do but please remember this give your credit give yourself credit when you get them done you know don't oh god i did so many things today oh my god i'm exhausted i could probably oh my god i probably need to sleep now for a week
now my digestion probably won't work that's you know i'll just victim i know it feels that way sometimes that that's how your day is going to go but then don't schedule so much uh instead of going you know i'm a nine on a tension scale you know i'm i'm a nine that's a movie line sorry but instead of i'm a nine uh on an accomplishment scale on a you can count on me scale um just be a three today oh that's bad that's way low and it is low but if it's all you are own it because
if you own it and do well with it and give yourself credit you become a for organically instead of pretending if you're a three and you try to be a nine i'm telling you you're gonna screw yourself up and screw a lot of people under your life's gonna fall apart in different ways and you're gonna whine about it later oh i was just such a good mother i just did so much that now i collapsed no you didn't do for others you were thinking you were doing for others but in fact you've destroyed yourself in some way or
another and that's not what love does so if you really did something out of love you wouldn't have burned yourself out or gone so far that way i'm not you know not saying there's anything wrong with us sometimes crashing and needing to sleep or nothing talking about this being our way of life is not healthy remember forgiveness is timeless it takes us into a state of timelessness it suddenly makes it seem like i'm in this time warp where instead of getting one thing done i got 20 things done it's like
what how did that happen it's amazing and i live like that a lot i'm not boasting it i'm just saying i know it's that way so all kinds of things done whoa all in a bit of time whether i have people helping me or doing it myself look at that and i can still sit back watch a favorite show or something i can still answer my emails i can still you know i mean i have a very busy life but i feel good about accomplishing things if you have a busy life or have several things you do and all you do is take it
as oh my god it's so much so heavy either cut back on it or be quiet do them and be quiet if you're going to complain you shouldn't be doing so much you know but take care of yourself but don't believe that you're a three forever don't judge yourself as being a weak person that can't do more just be weak for a moment and cry feel soak in a tub whatever and then come up to a four give thanks for that come up to a five but the day will come where every one of us is immune to everything of this world we
live in constant timelessness there's no limit to what we can do how fast we can do it and so on we're all heading to be a 10. so if you want to be a three don't think that that's your fate destiny or whatever your goal in life it's to be comfortable with wherever you are and see if you can come out a little more because anything else is technically a reflection of judgments on yourself or others as being less than your true divine self thank you for listening peace to you all god bless you and
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