Sacred Sexuality and Spontaneous Orgasms

So today, people are asking about, yes, sacred sexuality. And I'll talk about that, but some specific topics. Now this is gonna be strange for some folks that might be suddenly tuning in for the first time, going "Well, spiritual insights by Michael Mirdad, clearly this will be about spirituality, you know, forgiveness, love, oneness, etc," and here we're going to talk about something very specific in regards to sex or sexuality.

And that's gonna be the topic of what you guys asked, what's going on? Like orgasms, why sometimes spontaneous orgasms and what that's about? Or energy sex, meaning astral sex and energy experiences. So you asked for it, you got it. So let's go for it, and thanks for your courage to ask these kinds of questions.

Alright let me start this talk off with a quick story, and it's not about astral sex and it's not about energy orgasms and these kinds of things per se, but it's a funny story to help keep things light. Because we really should keep things light when it come to topics that are so battered, so messed up, confused, abused, and so on.

You know, keeping things light is so important. Keeping things loving is very important. I've always said sexuality if you're really asking me how do you summarize Tantra sacred sexuality how do you summarize really like sacred Union just because two people get together and have intercourse does not for sacred make you know it just doesn't work that way you don't just say well all sex is sacred because it's not true two people without sacred attitudes are not having sacred sex because if the mindset isn't there because the mind is

the consciousness is everything the consciousness we have behind things is everything it really sets the whole tone so if people aren't in the right mindset consciousness set heart set then it's not a right consciousness or right experience so sacred means you coming from a sacred space so when people ask can you summarize Tantra sacred sexuality is it positions is that how long you make love you know is it ours or what it's not anything external really those things are the dressing you know it's that's it but it's not those

aren't the core of it all really love and respect is what sets the tone love and respect now I'm not saying you have to be in love madly and love partnered forever etc but can you have absolute love and the reason I added respect when I started teaching many years ago on this topic is because some people would go when I said love and other people would say oh yes it's all we haven't we're having a loving experience you know and yet it wasn't so too often they could lie and deceive and fool people and to describe you know telling people

it was a loving experience and it wasn't they're just a lot of times people in this field Tantra sacred sexuality you know it's real hypocritical so you have to know that it's all real and for that I like that word respect man it just came through me one day and I kept it in there forever do you have love and respect do you have loving respect for whomever you're with that's more important than if it's gay or straight whether it's you know two or five or all those things don't matter how long you

make love with all those things aren't gonna matter if it's missing love and respect if two people being together could guarantee then it's a sacred experience than porn stars would be enlightened and they are not so and I know because I work with many of them no no I think they're as good people as anybody else just wounded like anybody else could be wounded and have you know layers to be peeled off in terms of in the soul healing we're all looking for that healing so that we can be more present with each other with ourselves

and with each other and one of the things I really appreciate with the concept of sacred sexuality is that people are able to learn to be more present with one another but at such a vulnerable level in the physical level you know you could have wounds you could have shames you could have body issues and so on and it creates you know a little bit of inhibition so to be able to say but I trust you enough to just ah you know whether it's disrobing materially or disrobing spiritually emotionally I just think it's the most fabulous thing in the world

and when I say having love and respect for a person I have to sort of warn you love can be addictive but not in a negative way not in a lie you know the lies that we live with addictions addictive meaning it can be so good because it is that it draws us and makes us want more and we should want more because the love is beautiful it's real it isn't the sensual that I'm talking about it's there the true respectful love the honoring of another person you know two or more gathered and so that to me is a is a beautiful thing the

downside though is that I was allowed I'm and elaborate on is that when you come into that space with a person and you do bring that love and respect it can really woo them it can really wow them it can like oh my god I've never felt this kind of love love is so beautiful so if it's real so beautiful and powerful that it can it can really open our hearts and I'm not just about romantic love that seems to open our hearts it the real thing opens our soul it opens our heart and soul and then we start to get attached which means we're

now slipping out of the real love moment which is kind of funny but that's how eco works it just hijacks everything every impulse into becoming something more limited and detoured so keep it in mind that what I'm talking about these things I'm gonna share with you what I can in them up to have time given and I think some of you are gonna be like maybe turned on some of you turned off some of you dismayed some of you happy from it all it just it's gonna vary because there's so many feelings warped feelings around the topic of sexuality so please be patient

and forgiving if it triggers in any way you know something inside at the same time if it you know kind of wushu and Wow's you and you know wow this is cool so sexy sensual that's cool too just remember it's you you know don't have transference on me or the program or you know don't don't get so you know heat it up you got to run out to a nightclub and and hook up with somebody because you're all in the mood don't let it distract you just let it this take you deeper inside whether we find a little bit of wounds inside or whether we find you

know was inside it's okay as long as you recognize it's inside of you okay all right so an odd story once when I was an adolescent I had to go to the hospital for something I think it was because I think I've only been once maybe tonsils I guess and I remember I was in there and a nurse came in opens you know comes in the room I'm sitting there and then she says pulls the curtain and then gives me this little cup and she says and this was kind of common in these days Southern California when I was a kid I lived for a few years and um she

says you know she wants a sample so she says I need it she's she's saying a sputum sample but she has an accent so I'm an adolescent kid and I have this nurse standing there saying can I have a sputum sample oh what a spoon sperm sample a what I need to get a scooter she's like with an accent oh but I need to get a sputum sample and I'm like what do I do and she's standing there so I'm thinking I mean I'm sorry ma'am but I'm serious I'm like do you send someone in to help or are you the help or do I have to do

this alone and if so or are you actually gonna just stand here cuz this is kind of a buzzkill I mean what what am I supposed to do because sexuality and sexual concepts and issues they can just cause so many crazy things so I'm just completely nervous and confused and when I asked her enough times she decided to reap renounce it and say it in a different way so she said you know like saliva oh so there there was a little lesson learned but the awkwardness some of us have about these kinds of things sex sexuality and having to have exams

and just all these things and of course with it there's also wounding and embarrassments and shames and things like that but sometimes there's at least some funny stories we can share and that are quite vulnerable so I hope you don't mind my sharing all right so as I was saying there were a barrage of questions you guys were asking related to this this topic and it's sort of when I tried to distill all the questions on the freight Facebook group I tried to distill them all down to a couple of specific questions and I wrote them down

to make sure I asked them correctly in the way you guys asked them but it mostly breaks down into those two topics I mentioned energy sex and spontaneous orgasms I guess we could say so let's see the first one read through it Oh incidentally I want to make this clear because we're going into such a vulnerable topic i as a teacher on Tantra and sacred sexuality it's one it's just one like I said of a trillion topics I cover but on that topic I did workshops I did lectures conferences all kinds of things

I've spoken on this topic but you know all kinds of events but even online courses but you don't have written a couple books on it but the the thing is when people asked to come to my intensive it's a very awkward experience because I don't just do things like BAM just do them and people show up and I don't care they just pay and I don't care it's not like that especially this topic so we were quite in a sense selective you know so it was like people would ask to be in the workshop we would ask what what are you about because if

people were overly shut down you know closed minded and so forth then it was like you know I'd rather them not be at the workshop not just because like I'm judging them it's I'm respecting everyone else that's signing up they need to not be judged at a workshop where they're gonna be working on and discussing and sharing very vulnerable topics and personal experiences so it's important that we don't have that and I recommend this in your own lives in terms of just anything you you own a business you can decide

what kind of people you want working for you what kind of vibe tone you want to set set you know but I also wasn't interested in people that would say oh well I don't have any of those inhibitions and and those issues and judgments I'm totally open open open you know I know you know I know everything I need to know about sex it's wonderful I I know everything I've done everyone you know there there's free and loose so to speak and I wouldn't have them either I very much didn't want anybody who was

going to be shut down in judgemental nor people that the opposite they think is good know the opposite extreme meaning people that thought they knew everything know closed down judgmental know I already know it all which basically meant no nuns and no men no I'm kidding I'm kidding so it's just like no no I want the folks that are vulnerable now if they're heavily wounded sexually it may not be the right workshop maybe we should do private sessions and just work on those things so you have space and privacy so I was very discerning and I say was because I

stopped teaching that officially maybe five years ago or so I forget somewhere like that and the reason I taught it was people would come for private sessions sessions because when you typically go to a teacher on this topic they would they would almost expect to be having sex and I was like well let me just teach you about it so you can do this teach this to your partners teach this to a friend or whatever so that you're not asking me for this sort of thing the workshops were very vulnerable and they were you know one in every two or three

workshops there would be somebody that still got a little too triggered or something and those are kind of bummers you know bummer experiences but with that topic gosh you just know it's possible and you you if you yourselves decide to explore that a little further just remember use discretion decide who your who you're gonna study with and what level of integrity you're okay with and I would go for the highest level of integrity okay so let's see we're going to go into question number one this is going to be

related to the well the idea of spontaneous orgasms and there are actually a couple of questions on this particular topic but on spontaneous orgasms let me explain that the the the folks that just seem to have these like energy things that come to them like literally biologically anatomically they feel full arousal and orgasms there are things that lead up to that it's not like it's just you're supposed to have that GE I want what she's having or he's having I don't have that I should you

know those are don't listen to those magaz at the checkout stands that tell you how messed up you are because you're not having what they tell you you should be having you need love and respect not spontaneous orgasms love and respect takes you closer to heaven spontaneous orgasms do not it just feels like it but it it's not going to do something for you spiritually per se it's just a nice experience on this planet if you could have both that's ideal so you know let's just be clear that the reason some

people have those is because they're more naturally sexual or they're more naturally sensual and there's a difference those of you who are making notes you know difference between those two all right all right first why is it that when we work on certain muscle groups or muscles in our body to a point of fatigue this person a couple people were saying yeah I've had that happen they have orgasms when they work muscles to a point of fatigue now remember there's you know naturally sexual naturally naturally sensual either of

those these things could apply to them because if you're naturally sensual or naturally sexual it means you have a natural organic comfort level with your body and/or with sexual arousal and so forth so that will lend towards some of these things so so you know being naturally sexual is different from naturally sensual though naturally sexual can be people that are wounded and they have a just a propensity toward sexual behaviors sexual not sensual just sexual hyper sexual behaviors because of their wounding that's their background

they were brought up on it they were tormented with it and so it became that thing that you know an abuser becomes you know abused and then the abuse starts abusing themselves sometimes so that's not what we're talking about those types of folks naturally sexual it could they just wired that way perhaps or it's something from former lifetimes if you believe in that or childhood wounds it just kind of happens that way again there there it just ends up going that direction they're just seemingly naturally sexual

but then there's naturally sensual naturally sensual is different in that folks that are naturally sensual or almost instead of just like like addictive oriented that's sexual they have the sexual or the people with almost like past life slave harem you know harem slaves that's some of their energy it's there's a craving there's a I get most turned on when I'm what I'm fantasizing and then bigger is always better faster is always better intense is always better you know there's that

there's a coldness to it there's a hardness to it and in ancient traditions including Tantra there's and in yoga as well the the concept of hot like oh man hot sex hot heat is referred to it's this the word is synonymous with the word shallow so the hotter your sex has been in the past technically so sorry guys but technically it's been more shallow unless there was love and respect and the heat came from the love and respect which is actually rare and you know it's more rare but it can happen but for most people in your den

TV shows and magazines that are selling people on you know you look at your magazines I won't name any names because you know and you flip to them and they say you know 10 things you need to do to heat up your sex life or 10 things to have soft hot sex just forget it man because those magazines aren't going to teach you about love and respect so they're gonna miss that all right so keep it in mind it's not the heat we're looking for and that's what the natural sexual people are doing or feeling it's different natural sensual as I was

getting to is almost more like when they when they think of their bodies or when they think of Union love they almost like start to move you know they just almost like well dancing their body just is sensual they move and it can become sexual but they're moving they're enjoying they're not like you know yeah I want some you know there's no that game playing the naturally sensual people have a healthier sexual concept inside you know the sexual is like they're players man and some of you have fallen in love with

players some of you have fallen in lust with players but it doesn't really make any sense because they're just players they're game players so sensual and you can be the sexual and listen to this talk and you can actually shift over to the other but you'd have to be honest about where the others coming from you can't just pretend it's not there the hyper sexual you have to look at it and want to heal those wounds you have to want to know God more love more spirit more oneness more and true love those things will help you be able to segue

because you'll say you know with those in mind I can't can't seem to settle anymore and then you start deepening your experiences and remember to deepen and make warm not hot sex warm you know it's like yes yummy you know yummy wow this is so nice not yummy you know cuz that's carnivorous I'm gonna devour the sexual experience got to get you and people are like oh my god that's scene in the movie oh you know getting all wild by it you know that's not the inner divine that's just the inner moron you know the inner divine looks for the

breadth the width the depth this Wow yeah connecting it's not like go get it go get it you know Sikkim you know it's not all devouring oriented like the other kind of sex so the sensual the naturally sensual are people that may have in past lives remember they may have memories of being not harem slaves but rather the original form of a Geisha or a sacred prostitute it's called words that some people won't understand and won't respect but sacred prostitute they're people that that

understood I have been in a place where I knew how to do healing with people even sexual healing you may not understand it there's also a group called tantrikas Tantra practical practitioners and oh my god they were masters they were absolute like almost the same as Buddha Buddhist masters mystics but they took it to the physical level so they would have a person come to them and they would be loving to them like counselor mixed with musician mixed with mousse mixed with a sensual partner just this and mixed with masseuse you

know all these different areas and topics you know just to be present with a person and help them and say what's happening for you today I'm just feeling sad and then going going into that on a visceral somatic level it was just it's just brilliant and one in a billion today could be said to practice like that you know one in a exaggerating but one in so many it's it's very rare but they wouldn't be the types to advertise hype they wouldn't be the types to advertise stimulation there are people though that are you know they

try to be there for another person there's a movie what's it called guys the therapist that's Helen Hunt I think played a a sex therapist and as a sex surrogate which is the next level sex therapist could be a counselor sex therapist is one sex surrogate means I'm here to make love with you and help you and she's working with a guy who was quadriplegic and and allowing him to experience things that his heart and soul were missing and longing and you know it really brings a person to a sense of healing so it's quite beautiful

in any case you know there's also a lastly with naturally sensual people there's a maturity level that's different people that are sexual can look mature but you know I've got money I'm successful I'm 70 years old or whatever by age whatever by finance they look you know mature mm-hmm sensual naturally sensual people usually can be more mature meaning if they have a sensual experience a sexual and sensual experience they know how truly like like if you get into sexual experiences yet

you may think it's sensual but it's usually not it just looks that way sensual is different there's a cooler feeling longer-lasting more loving feeling and and people in the sensual they're more responsible and mature so they know how to say this can be sexy beautiful could be very arousing beautif all beautiful in every respect but they know how to say this is about me if we enjoy each other you're not giving me an orgasm you're not giving me an awakening sexual it just looks that way if one seems to be helping another it's we're

sharing this but at the end of the day what happens for me like it or hate it it's me if I like this experience it's reflecting something in me and if I don't like it it's respect it's reflecting something in me so that's a responsible soul a sensual soul knows how to be mature and responsible they don't do projections you you you jerk you you had sex with me and you dumped me well didn't you say it was a beautiful yeah but you should have stayed forever transference you know you're overly

crediting them as giving you a wonderful thing you had the wonderful thing okay it looks like you had it with them but they were just playing a role it was you you should give yourself credit and same you know the opposite the projections I didn't like the way this was and so on like I said you could even get transference and love somebody and dig the experience turn it over to projection and blame them for not staying longer or whatever so watch out transference projection that's going to usually come from unhealthy people that

I clearly aren't dealing with maturity so but these naturally we're getting into spontaneous orgasms they can come from being wired a certain way they can come from genetics they can come from hormones being a certain you know ratio kind of you know really flooding you know a lot of hormones at different times in our lives it can also be like strong like repressed desire it could be strong repressed emotions from childhood where you weren't allowed to like speak or be yourself so that could build up and

become this tension volcano ready to blow but it can also be just current sexual desires that you know eventually you know gotta got to release this somehow so those are examples of what makes a person seem a little more wired for that you may not be wired or very easily naturally sexual or sensual I should say and you may not also be very easily naturally wired for this thing you know spontaneous orgasms and it's okay find love and respect as your first goal keep that in mind all right now so the first one so why why wouldn't we

work certain muscles they get fatigued do I have sometimes spontaneous orgasms well there's a couple reasons for that first of all there's two things happening when the muscle gets fatigued muscles muscle groups or a muscle when it gets fatigued so just bear with me here one thing that happens is the muscles been worked so much so intensely whether it's long a long workout or a physical thing you're doing could be painting you're you know you can be hanging the pictures in your house but certain muscles could get fatigued

enough you can be standing doing weeding and your legs might start you know the shaking and they get kind of fatigued so the muscle what's happening is the muscle is having to give up it it's like it starts to shake because it's gone to the point of where it cannot bear more when it does that it is technically surrendering and when we're in a state of surrender we do lend more you know towards possible releases if you've got the other things meaning hormonal the repressed feelings desires are just in

the mood you know when all that other list of things is kind of there and you fatigue a muscle it can come surging through or if you're naturally sexual or if you're naturally essential these things can kind of come through but the muscle is going to get like to a place of it's it's getting fatigued and then it kind of releases but when it releases its feeling two things emotionally the muscles having an emotional experience it's it's feeling fear believe it or not though it's feeling fear and panic so because it's it I can't hold it you

know so the muscles doing like Scotty on Star Trek captain we can't hold it any longer you know so the muscles like up above its building building building and then boom it surrenders and that moment just second half a second fraction of a second prior it is panicking it is having fear because fear and anger are related to some of these spontaneous spontaneous orgasms so that's one of the things happening couple other things happening the muscles are getting fatigued there's this fear and it's losing control and when we lose control

you know there's a surrender and a panic to things surrender and fear / panic and both of those can be associated you know I don't know what to do oh my gosh and then you can't defend anymore see the muscles defending itself and it starts to shake as it's trying to hold on longer and it can't so when it begins to recognize oh I can't hold then if there's repressed feelings they start to go yeah you know you can't keep us back any longer they you know sometimes come through so it can be an orgasmic release it's kind of

sounding strange but bear with me cuz it gets stranger alright so and I've worked with a lot of women and men but I worked with a lot of women with a technique where I they tell me you know they can't have orgasms or sometimes they tell me oh yeah I have orgasms they're great they're just sorry when I'm with somebody I'm having you know orgasms and I can tell when it's an authentic love based orgasm versus the opposite fear or anger or something else so I'll say let's do a little exercise or if they say I'm

really so oh god I'm just craving intimacy or sex or something I'll say well let's wrestle we do an exercise a wrestling exercise specific words I will recite during it and I don't mean wrestling like where you try to defeat somebody I mean just the body's kind of moving together and working and tensing together very um you know just yeah just like so just really as many muscles engaged as possible and we do that and many people have then though they have an orgasm or they just enjoy the visceral feeling and that's

kind of cool it's a little hard to you know understand this I'm just doing a quick talk on it so it may not make sense to some of you but there's a lot of value to it but some people have orgasms and then they'll say wow I just had an orgasm from that wrestling Michael uh-huh yeah you know and they'll say that was this good an orgasm is what I'm having sex mm-hmm yeah I understand yeah and they'll say why was that well what was I what were you thinking about when we were it's not that this is the only

thing I have the thought talking thinking about one of the emotions I haven't thinking about when we're wrestling is anger so I said what do you what were you thinking about when we're doing the exercise well you asked me to focus on anger uh-huh so you were thinking about anger and you had an orgasm they start going oh so that means because it felt exactly the same it's a possibility that when I was having orgasms with my partner or partners I was actually an angry individual at the time yes major major

you know epiphanies but also rude awakenings for some because we're like god I'm just so in touch with my sexuality I'm enjoying that I have orgasms when in fact you're having anger chasms you know or whatever you know it's not quite what you thought so I've worked with people like that and it's it's also the wrestling is getting the muscles to fatigue that's you know just like you're asking about why the muscles fatigue and then release many a times I've worked on people doing body work I can't have orgasms okay well here

and then I do some holding muscle groups or holding a muscle and you know meaning a point or you know however I'm contacting it but holding muscle groups and it could be on the hip it could be in the stomach wherever but I hope specific groups or muscles and I I hold them and hold them and hold them as they're releasing releasing relaxing and releasing and then boom just from working a muscle we're not even having them work it just from contacting a muscle because for various reasons a person can actually become potentially

orgasmic but they use certain muscles in the body to keep it from happening without realizing it it could be because they were shamed because they made noise once I'm having sex or it could be their own mind or it could be their upbringing religious cultural family you know that's naughty that's bad so they oh I better or not now those muscles they got the habit of holding come along you know work the muscle open the muscle boom you know then all this stuff all this energy all you know this is this even pleasure we could call it is released because the

the person we were able to move that stuff out of the way all right so leading to another question here a very similar question and by the way those when I'm doing the wrestling and the words I use and the movements I use are specific so don't try this at home okay what you could but I'd have to explain it a little more next question why is it that when my body relaxes enough muscles get warmed up like it could be hot tub or just relaxed snuggled in pillows or whatever when my muscles get warmed enough why do I

sometimes have orgasms it's because not they're not just getting warm they're actually getting relaxed what's the common denominator from the first thing I shared you're surrendering whether it's you're surrendering because you can't work that muscle and defend it anyway and that's what it remember it's what it's doing you your muscle wants to defend itself so it starts even shaking that's a that's a defense it's a last vestige of a defense it's like yeah I

can't do it instead of just working you know like hammering you know pictures putting pictures up and then the arm getting fatigued it doesn't just stop it goes from workable to becoming fatigued and then done and in that fatigue there's a panic but there's also a sense of just about to surrender so it's the same with warmth the muscles get warmed up to get relaxed and then I'm so relaxed I can't defend because I don't need to but that okay I know I'm not defending and so boom here it comes all that was kind of waiting and hidden

under that okay and I could that particular thing that relaxing thing I could demonstrate that here and many of you would respond but I won't first because this is an Internet show shown around the world second because who knows your mother could be watching but there's exercises I could show you that involve guiding you through visualizations or exercises and that if people could just understand it orgasms aren't about stimulating they're about relaxing getting out of the way because orgasms are a metaphor

of safe enough to let go that's not the way people have orgasms they what they do is override safe enough because that's usually not safe enough and they say well we don't have safety you know we do have stimulation rub rub rub rub rub and then BOOM forcing an orgasm that's not an organic it's forced it's contrived it's mechanical it's you know it's made up but instead when we relax enough so we're typically tensing even when people are being sexually tense up grab each other hmm you know

but it's there's tension involved which is the opposite of love trust letting go so when we do this together you know and if I were guiding you I could describe certain things I mean I'm doing a little bit in my mind but I could describe certain things and in the body there's there's an unwinding that happens we start like this and then there's an unwinding you can do this for yourself if you end up saying Oh Michaels Wow Michael's talking and I'm getting stimulated by it don't say that or I'll bill you for it

that's just a playful way of saying don't put it on other people just enjoy that you are grateful that you're being guided or taught but it's you I'm grateful that I'm opening up and and it unwinds and you unwind you don't need wha twine to unwind you you don't need drugs to unwind you I feel so much more relaxed when I take a little such and such color just trusting trusting my body's kind of relaxing this direction in this direction in this direction just there's no reason to be afraid there's no reason to hold and I'm not really

fully taken into a visualization I'm just giving you a hint of it just unwinding and if all you feel is oh my gosh I feel a little peaceful that's an orgasm if my describing this no need to be afraid no need to defend brings up tears that's an orgasm feeling a peacefulness is a spiritual kind of an orgasm it's a it's a mystical kind of experience to say I had some tears that's an emotional kind of an orgasm it's beautiful get away from shaming get away from shaming that you're you've had certain history

get away from shaming that you have certain feeling sensations and get away from even if you're the opposite oh my gosh you know I'm I'm feeling ashamed because I've got gone without for so long and to some people as I could spend months that's come on you know other people years and some people have never in this lifetime had sex and you should not need not be intimidated afraid or ashamed of that I think it's beautiful why you know well I'm saving my sets beautiful I'm one certain integrities

and I won't give in anymore I think that's gorgeous man don't shame yourself too many experiences not enough experiences don't bother because that's not sacred love love love love yourself a lot of people don't know I've shared this I think once or twice a lot of people don't know that I was celibate for 15 years so I want you to soak that in for a second 15 years you know what some of you were like no way or how did he do that or why did he do it 15 years celibate but when I turned 16 I

said enough is enough okay next next question is why is it that let's see I want to somebody's asking about why is it that some teachers recommend sex for things like making up you know make up sex or why is it that some teachers say sex is a great way to work off like tension like even headaches I remember somebody saying you know there's a popular teacher Louise Hay and her book said you know sex is a great way to release tension and tension headaches absolutely no way that is it's clueless to say

things like that that's not sacred never never should you use a person for something like that get a damn massage it you just say rub my shoulders instead of let's lay down you know just come on there's other ways nor should you be used for such a thing and then this thing this thing makeup sex cuz they're asking about that do you believe in that is that sacred there's and some of their emails to me no I do not I'm not saying you know you should make yourself feel bad if you did you did it it's just that if you asked me

makeup sex oh is it makeup sex hot yes it is slash shallow I already covered that makeup sex working you know your tensions out through sex with people for idiots no offense sorry man but for idiots that's not real that's not at all deep real anything it's just so ridiculous ludicrous it really is I remember when my middle daughter was a teenager she had one of those teen magazines or something like like it was a it was a more like mature type not just a pop idol kind of thing but it was more like

a teen magazine and she's reading that and she came to me saying dad can I talk to you about this shirt and she says in the Dear Abby kind of section somebody wrote in a girl wrote in and said my boyfriend and I we had fights and he wants to make up and have sex but I'm upset because he hurt my feelings he did something rude or you know hurt he hurt me in some way what should I do and the license train counselor brighter you know columnist columnist in in this magazine said well you should do that it's a nice way to bond and my daughter

said that's wrong and she's 15 or something at the time I was so proud not only of her but that any human being could see how stupid that kind of advice was from an expert and yet even a child knew better I dig that I love I love when even a child has the greater intelligence than the trained experts because then you really know something's cool about that person or did something's really ludicrous about the opposite it was so obvious that you know a dog would I ran from that particular magazine so you know it's just it's so

obvious any any thing with a brain would just no no so please use your common sense alright love man find that love where's the integra so the relaxing the letting go the oh I'm having greater levels of trust I'm having greater levels of release and that lends towards spontaneous orgasms for naturally sexual but better still naturally sensual individuals now what about a different type of sensual you know release in other words not just spontaneous orgasms but something that's happening energetically it's not like

you're just working on it opened up physically what about when you're actually having what's called astral experiences higher dimensional or other dimensional experiences so some folks here is asking you know they're asking though they're asking you what is energy sex or what is astral sex and you know they had it worded in different ways so I just kind of again distilled it down to one but there are healthy and unhealthy versions of this so let me let me explain and elaborate a bit energy sex can happen in generally speaking the

three different ways there's a spiritual experience of energy sex the spiritual is the highest spiritual means something about you it could be past life make up this life could be vulnerability it could be you're surrendering you're going through a dark night of the soul and you're surrendering despair and help me whatever it is or your devotional ism sincerity great integrity different things can lend towards this but you just happen to be ready for not a man or woman to reach to you and touch your body and give you an orgasm genitally

instead spirit reaches its hand into our soul and ignites us and there's just this ecstatic explosion it's you know quite beautiful obviously it's it causes ecstatic releases I mean visionaries sing mother Mary have had this were their body arches just like orgasmic arching you know that sometimes happens the body's arch there sometimes convulsions it's all very similar you know in fact the muscle fatigue it looks similar there's a you know there's this kind of releasing sometimes when you cry a lot and your how is that not similar

to orgasm it is similar people just are messed up in the way they see things it's very simple you just had a major release it wasn't a genital sexual release but you had a version of an emotional orgasm which comes either from being you know accessing wounds in some way current or past or sometimes joy just oh my god and crying you know and having an emotional release an ecstatic release because I'm so happy this experience with you being so sensual and safe is I'm so grateful that's still an

emotional release and people say oh but I'm not having an orgasm I'm sorry why would you apologize you had some tears and I think that's an orgasm it's beautiful thanks for sharing it should all really really be beautiful like that but the spiritual orgasms that is not something a person can give you that's something that would come from Holy Spirit angels very high level spirit beings but they are spirit beings they're not physical beings with a high spiritual quality just very very spirit they're spirit beings all right now

fewer of you have that then have had the other type but I'm naming it anyway because it's one of the types that can happen the next type is closer to home more like astral or from astral plane meaning the other side of death it's that that next realm the astral world the fourth dimension or even fifth dimension but once you get there and higher it starts to become almost a spiritual orgasm but yeah some five fifth dimensional beings could be included in this particular category so energetic orgasms and I want to again

say there's healthy types and there's unhealthy types so the healthy versions astral based sex those can happen with astral beings but they're positive beings light beings it could be a deceased loved one who's still with you and saying honey I'm here and you know would you like to experience me it's not like they're actually on the other side going you know listen biting their astral fingernail oh my god I'm really craving you mind no that's not what I'm talking about it's not what's happening I'm saying there's still a love for it

to be positive healthy there also needs to be agreement on some level doesn't mean you literally have written you know if anyone's out there they would like you know here's my signature it just means on some level it feels agreeable it's never coerced it's never forced it's just this feels loving you know it's it's just beautiful you can you can even have astral experiences that are believe it or not parts of yourself making love to yourself and it creates like wow this is just wow you know like who was that

don't don't credit don't name just have your experience and learn more and more to make it about you alright please there are unhealthy forms of the astral or other dimensional you know sex the the unhealthy would be obviously exactly the opposite sometimes you've got dark beings you've got it would be without permission you you know and and you could say this includes people too but I'm gonna get to that in a sec I'm talking about purely beings that are in the astral world so you have darker beings but there are mischievous beings

that tamper so you have to watch also in this category sometimes there are even elemental beings could be included in this category but that could also be included sometimes on a physical sexual experience so you have spiritual you have the energetic or astral rather then you have physical or human sexual experiences so I'll get to that one in a sec back to the middle one the negative the unhealthy ones can even be your ego triggering wounds shames and your having like a sexual experience and it's like I felt somebody touching me even if you

had an orgasm doesn't mean you did something wrong wind blows the breasts respond the nipples respond just if you had a yucky being and you still had a an orgasmic experience you're gonna feel confused by it and that's exactly what they're there for they want to cause you know mess you up and cause confusion don't take that personally your body respond a big deal that's the body that didn't mean you were giving permission for unhealthy to have its way with you you didn't do anything wrong but knowing

that this is happening you still have to say hey you know what the egos trying to push me into feeling guilty and ashamed no done calling the Holy Spirit and then picture feeling filled with light surrounded and filled with light the presence of peace the hands of God over me even blessing the fact that I was just with some yucky thing and and and I feel a little confused and ashamed just let the light of God shine light upon you and trance mute all of the strange feelings you might have even on a cellular level okay the third and final

category of otherworldly kinds of sex is is that it's you still you could be in your bed you could be working out a gym but something happens to you but we're connecting now not to spawn tornadoes spontaneous orgasms but remember it's it's when other beings are involved and not there physically so there's spiritual there's astral and physical physical though in this case means you're here physically you're having physical responses and from beings that are in the physical world they're just not with you in the room how could that

happen you could have somebody you're in agreement with you know sexy kind of playful relationship you know you know hey what are you doing oh I'm going to bed alright I'm gonna send you some thoughts you know and let's imagine making love those kinds of things can happen projecting the mind into the presence of someone else and having even physical responses you could sit in the same room without contact and you know send the thoughts and somebody could respond if they're wired like that and

have that natural sensual sexual kind of nature which is neither good nor bad it just is and so it happens we don't want to ever get to going I need that I wish I had that I don't have that I'm not complete you don't go into those games of the mind you just look for love and respect and then the rest can be built over time if you want to learn how to do that so so yeah so there's people that are alive and you're sort of having a cooperative experience you're it's agreed upon there's a permission given and so it's alright and in that category

you can sometimes even have beings that are in the physical realm not too far off elemental beings you know believe it or not the Catholic Church into the Middle Ages and Dark Ages and Middle Ages had a law that said you people you men and women cannot must not it's against the law have sexual intercourse interaction with elemental spirits nature spirits or elemental beings and that you go wait why would they have to why would they have to put that in there because it was happening beings would do that the the the legends around Merlin

is that his mother was a human mother and his father was a salamander spirit or a nature spirit of sorts okay there are such things believe it or not they're not just fables those things have happened there are beings that are malicious and some that are beautiful wonderful well-meaning benevolent but why would they connect and that leads us to sort of our closure none of these experiences can happen without everyone sensing on some level these beings sensing on some level that you're open to it your sexual confusion could attract a being that loves preying upon

people in sexual confusion your repressed sexual desires some of them are out there it's it's like the word spirits when you say I'm gonna go up to the bar and and drink some spirits why do they call liquor spirits because in the time the old days there were people that recognized that these kinds of places were filled with spirits Souls not spiritual like God's Spirit but spirits souls that were looking for beings that were more susceptible for them to inhabit or cling to or attach to and people that are in an altered state

drugs alcohol are susceptible so the place where you go and drink spirits you're actually drinking spirits and making yourself vulnerable or susceptible to spirits just an aside okay now same with this when you're craving you know if you have sexual addiction sexual craving sexual repressions it can attract extreme emotions can easily attract emotionally unstable beings on the other side predatorial sometimes they're just discarnate dead people who are you know looking for something to get off and no

pun intended but to get off with whether it's attaching to them when they're drinking or whether it's a sexual experience okay so you know healthy or unhealthy astral or human it's all you know the sexual contact can only happen when the other beings sense that on some level they have permission it's not that you said I'm giving permission you gave permission by being in that susceptible State now I don't mean for you to think that I'm saying oh my god I better not think about anything drinking sex nothing you know

I'm not saying it's I'm saying when it's extreme enough it attracts things but if it's going to attract what get in a good state get in such a good state that that when you pray you're you're doing the same as you would if somebody were massaging you or stimulating you in a soft loving way going to prayer and say Here I am god it's not that you're trying to turn it into a sexual experience it's the same level of saying I'm gonna I'm gonna let tensions go I'm

gonna relax and have this person you know my partner pleasure me or kiss me or whatever it's so nice instead of hot sex you know it's it can be so beautiful when soft and it becomes a deeper experience when soft so take it that direction you know work with it like that and when you're praying Here I am do it's it's energetically intentioned wise it's the same may not seem like it's the same but the intention behind it is relaxing calming being and things happen spiritually and energetically but remember you have to give permission so

if ever it doesn't feel like there's permission or whatever you just say back off you have the right you have the power to do that just you know it's kind of like tell these idiots to get away you know like just come on man I'm looking for the light of God how you guys doing these beings don't dig that when you hold that presence back off man not here for you go to the light you'll have great orgasms you go to the light go go get off in the light you know cuz if they go it'll transmit their stuff so it's pretty cool but don't let them have

power like physical predators at the end of the day everything I just talked about in terms of their healthy and unhealthy do's and don'ts it's no different than I'm gonna advise you or what advise you if you were asking about physical partnerships the physical world material partnerships same advice which would be love respect whether it's astral or human love and respect death slow down man not stimulate to slow down deep in the experience that deep that takes the love and spreads it through the body and being and it gets

to the point where you realize I'm not even a body anymore not because your dissociating in an unhealthy way it's you're realizing because you go to the body build the body awareness and then beyond the body into this oh my god I'm feeling love and the love will turn into light and bliss as well if you hang in there long enough and properly but the body you're there at first to some degree but you deepen and deepen and slow down that'll help you deepen and then to a place of Wow I just feel full I feel alive and it's

not based on stimulation it's not size of breasts and genitals and this and that it's not bodies perfect shape and fat-free wrinkle free it's that stuff just is ridiculous and I use words you know ludicrous idiotic you know and some people you know gosh those aren't very spiritual words they're perfectly spiritual words you know because they express how ridiculous the other can be the non spiritual world yet that realm the Eco doesn't get it and you and I are the ones who have to teach to people around us and including ourselves but

also the people around us that there's an alternative the real thing love orgasms when a person looks at you and whistles and hey baby you know boy have you got a guy like me or a girl like me or whatever they saying do you have this attitude cuz it's a true attitude which is you have no idea you're telling them with your mind you have no idea oh man I bet I can give you an orgasm you have no idea nothing you can do to stimulate me could compete with the I am the orgasm of who I am is way beyond

anything any body could ever do for me know that an own the power is you and will advise within you to share that with someone else spiritually astrally physically humanly you know is is a beautiful experience because it means to not just one two people have decided to put aside all the programs God all the programs of life that tell us the programming that tells us it's all done differently and they were mistaken all right I pray that this is made sense I really do and thank you those of you who are still watching for all I know everybody's clicked off

because it was do weird maybe I don't know but many blessings I swear man thank you so much and thank you for creating a space for me because this becomes a sacred sexual experience in the sense that we're talking about such deep and vulnerable and sexual oriented topics in a way that you guys are creating a vessel and asking questions like you did that I can enter that vessel and sort of dance with you and say okay what question do you have it's this okay here's my answer see it's a dance a very beautiful sensual dance and

an acceptance that's happening accepting I accept that you have those questions there's not a judgment I accept that you're allowed to say but Michael I really also love intense sex no problem I'll just tell you what it is right wanna wrestle you know it's anger or whatever and teach about it without judgment I think that's so beautiful i as a teacher feel grateful to have spent so many years the writing the teaching and the work you know with people individually in such a profoundly deep scary volatile area that it's it's

orgasmic in a sense for me or you to be in those positions to teach others because you're going into that place of letting go and it brings joy to see the numbers of people the tears of joy the tears of sadness and wounds and you know abuses crying away god I just feel such an awe such a bliss orgasm of appreciation it's just so to me it's just so beautiful and so amazing I feel a little bit sad and bummed that gave that up and stopped working there for all kinds of reasons but the because of the sometimes the difficulties that

causes people also because of my role as a spiritual teacher it gets extra confusing to some people and just so on and so on there are other reasons but those kinds of reasons I set it aside a little bit bummed because of knowing how much good it brought to light a lot of people but again I've taught enough people and I take moments like this to say say something about teach you and hopefully you guys can go and do it and I've written about it so you could read I've written two books one is the an introduction to Tantra and sacred

sexuality I also have one on relationships and several other titles but related to this topic a great one on creating fulfilling relationships but and they're all on my website or on wherever other places people buy books and so forth but I don't know if it's Amazon or whatever but my website hasn't and in another book called sacred sexuality a manual for living bliss and that's one that has all these exercises and so forth in it on do's and don'ts for yourself and others Kundalini exercises and just I put as much as I

could in there that were that would be easy to convey in book form so that's downloading of all my you know it's it's ten percent of what I know but it's all I could do in book form and what I could do at the time for people so there's a lot in there and it's full spectrum really alright so blessings to you all lots of love to you may you have really blessed spiritual sensual experiences in your life all right full body experiences at that peace be with you bye bye