Relationships: Real Versus Compensatory

happy valentine's day some people are going to be watching this video and it's when it's not valentine's day but let's just sort of say every day is potentially valentine's day you know it's an interesting um custom valentine's day i wasn't thinking to talk about this and then i found out it's valentine's day um and um you know the custom the the little valentines we give each other you know this goes back to ancient cultures and the cultures would i'll put their

name on a card and throw them in a pot and then people would pull from the pot and you know who whoever you pulled out was you know who you went and played with or whatever you know um i think that's where you know because you you wonder you know like you get oh you know you might end up pulling pulling the card of somebody that doesn't feel compatible and i think that's where the i have a headache originated but um this just occurred to me i swear um but uh but that's true that those cards used to be

used for that and what i love about that is that it's not about the casualness it's to me it's the playfulness behind it all right i think that's a very beautiful thing that people being playful and celebrating and maples and christmas and different celebrations and all that sadly people however forgot the the meaning of any of those things rituals even gatherings you know what was mass about oh mascot i remember mass you know i remember one time i went to church it was high mass or mass and the air conditioner wasn't working and

it was hot i remember you know people have all these negative associations mass means to gather together in mass in group in oneness but you know people forgot that you know they forgot to meet each other and greet each other and you know here we are um we don't even do music much anymore because there's going to be people that oh you shouldn't be singing you should you know oh god you know so it's like we have to cope with these things but not let them control us so we do to a degree we do okay we won't

do a lot of singing right now to honor those people it's a respectful thing to do but yet sometimes we just do it anyway to honor the other people that feel like singing because it's just right to be able to sing it's right to go god i feel really alive oh you're not allowed okay never mind it's not being home again as a kid you know don't be too happy okay um the world wants to do that the world wants to just whether you call it beat it out of us or programming it out of us the world does not want to be a happy

place and yet people keep going to the world to find their happiness it's got to be an inside job so to me romance valentine's christmas maple any celebrations to me they're beautiful i i sometimes will make you know funny comments about some of these things because of the way people do them but to me love romance valentine's is beautiful not for the codependent aspect but what it's concealing beneath valentine's and beneath these celebrations and beneath you know giving you a gift for valentine's day and so forth

underneath it is really a quest for the real thing real love honestly you know humans might not think that humans might think no no it's supposed to be only between you and your partner and if you don't have one you're supposed to just be depressed and so on and so on i don't believe that you know i think it's you know at christmas i put some money if i have money at the end of the year i tend to use the money and put in cards and bring them to people i don't go well i can only bring it to

one you you just share love with anybody you can and the ancient custom of pulling cards and and trusting that you can still play with the other person on some level on some level and you can still give gift cards to people and you can still happy valentine's day you know really is your partner supposed to go i saw you wish that person happy valentine's day it's supposed to only be me you know it's like wow hell hath risen um you know it's no longer a a cavern in the earth you know allow love and also recognize

uh beneath the human dysfunctional or limiting experiences of love is really the quest for the real thing and that makes it beautiful it's okay to have partnership or casual or whatever you want to do but just don't lose sight of the real thing give out five valentines wish 20 people valentine's day get one person only flowers whatever but underneath it even the special love of a partner underneath it is still a quest for the real thing and anything on planet earth is going to be just a you know a lesser version it can never

be the real thing people would love to know real love but real love ultimately capital are real would be divine love and if people aren't divine how do they get no divine love they think they're humans well if you're humans how are you going to know divine love you will not but you can come close the closest you can come is really to be able to develop love at a more responsible level because the real thing is available but that's only god when i access the god within me i'm getting us as close as

i can to god love divine love but in human form it's next to impossible but what we can do is get close unconditional love and love that's mature and responsible meaning you communicate right you connect you communicate you're responsible for what you're feeling instead of the old codependent blame shame and whatever else the the whole you know uh there's there's real love and then there's compensatory love and that's partly what we're wanting to get to here we don't want to play the game with

compensatory love anymore it's an amazing thing and people don't realize it's like the pendulum swinging i have this kind of relationship but it's not a lot of fun oh my god i met somebody and they're fun i wouldn't do it if i were you go to the center oh no but they're going to make up for uh compensatory you know what my mother wasn't what my father wasn't what my partners weren't what my friends are not it's still compensatory it would behoove us in in terms of our

soul growth to recognize wow i see it a pattern of trying to compensate whether it's my partner was never intimate so now i want intimacy my partner said never said i love you so now i want somebody who says it every day then what you're doing is hiring people to be the other that's what we're doing is we're hiring them sometimes they're even paid but [Laughter] i mean that's what that's about you know and we make it easy for them that's why they're called hookers because they can

hook people it's true it they can hook but what are they hooking on to stop throwing them a line to hook onto so there's this there's this bargaining people do and they don't realize it sometimes we're literally paying them and sometimes energetically paying them which is really tragic you know wow you know i mean a great example a person i knew client and all that and friend who was considered by people to be just beautiful model gorgeous but she didn't believe it in here this is why i tell you

thinking is not the ultimate power within a man and woman between mankind it's not thinking everybody tells you power of your thoughts your beliefs are the core so this person can think she's beautiful and everybody can tell her she didn't believe it in here higher shocker than thinking she didn't believe it so when she met somebody and she very clearly said my best relationship ever it was the most sexy the most wonderful stimulating great tell me about it the deeper you know parts of this relationship

and she eventually peeled the layers pill the layers and got to this i picked somebody who was basically out of shape and unattractive because i knew this is what she said they would never leave me they would never cheat or leave as long as i was better they knew they were lucky to have me see that's bargaining see what i'm saying it's bargaining now is that great well yes because he won't leave no because you're in hell the whole time a bargain is a lie and a lie would be hell so she would have to eventually come to

the place of risking it and finding someone who's more vibrationally compatible and run the risk of facing her fears that they still might leave right so typically what people are looking for in relationships is the opposite we look for somebody who who suits the look i have a i have an image i want with the way i want them to look and we also have this issue with i want them to never push my buttons never bring up any issues it's kind of like oh okay how long is that gonna happen because it's not gonna

you know this is not gonna work oh no i know somebody and they they never bring up any stuff that's fine it's all it is on payment plans this is coming eventually you push the payments back you push the payments back all it did was build them with interest rates and it's not very interesting these rates you can't you can't avoid yourself well i want somebody that that doesn't bring up that that i'm getting older i want somebody that makes me seem handsome or whatever it is it's

only for so long the first times they see you and they're like oh god you're so handsome or you're pretty or whatever the words might be that's great and they might say it every day and you're like i found my soul mate and right what you guys know the term i always use you really just found your cell mate you found somebody you found somebody that you are bound with you're both up creek heaven help the person when reality sets in the first time that person doesn't like do the double like wow you're good look

and next time oops and they might have looked at somebody else or whatever you're like you know i knew it you were lying to me and they they weren't you were lying to yourself you never said you know instead of wow i feel like this strong attraction instead of that what you really were saying but nobody's reading the subtext is you seem like a person who will help me avoid my inner issues you know and or suit my so it's the external image that you play and wow you look the external part or the internal part don't bring up

issues and if you can do both oh my god i have found my soul mate you know the one who will look the way i want and never bring up my issues because then i'm physically safe and emotionally safe but you're not it's a bargain that's all it is it's it's a contract and it's not one that your higher self wants if i'm in my lower self i can't create a higher self relationship if i'm in my lower self which means unhealed wounds neediness codependent tendencies self deception or deception on others

all of that stuff is a broken me so how can i go i can't wait i'm totally screwed up but i read that there's such a thing as soul mates i want one now how do you expect that to be vibrationally compatible are you different than yesterday when you were messed up you know did you heal did you go oh my god it's time to really look at myself no same person same vibration same challenges in our in our partnerships however we think we sometimes that this can't be a true rule michael's talking about because i have had people

that weren't the same right they were compensatory and the pendulum swung so you thought you broke out of jail but you didn't all you did was make friends with another inmate this is great as this is coming to me you know like and i think michael it's valentine's day oh that's right hi everyone happy valentine's you know and then i just end up right back to it because i'm on a roll you know it's as as it comes to me but it's it's true you took you're in prison you're afraid of the

other inmates and you're hiding in your shell that's one side of your broken concepts of relationship just because you eventually make friends with an inmate doesn't mean you're not in prison it looks opposite i'm no longer cowering in a corner now i'm like hey man how's it going you know and we're buddies but we're still in jail we're just mutually supporting each other while we're in jail my first relationship marriage you know from like 80 to 1990 um it's very very clear to me wonderful

soul good person and all that but very clear to me that we knew at the time we were getting married to get away from our families that's not real love you know it's it's an arrangement listen uh yeah you've got a screwed up situation there i gotta say hey why don't we get together and hide you know you know and that's kind of what we did but at least there was enough maturity to see it to know what was really happening not perfectly and not every minute but at least generally to know and when you come out of such a

thing you no longer say i can't believe what that person did to me you start to realize oh that makes sense that's the contract i'm using them you're they're using me it comes to an end well yeah that makes sense but that takes responsibility and as i said in compensatory relationships they're dysfunctional codependent relationships there's a lack of responsibility there's a lack of clarity people don't seem to know who they really are therefore they can't seem to convey that to people now how do we end

up in these types of relationships and i mean these are experienced you know um there's the people that you know the company so compensatory is going to come from there's the people in my life who didn't do what i wanted them to do they wouldn't give me what i wanted they wouldn't be what i wanted so i'm going to swing and look for the opposite that happens a lot there's also our own inadequacies that we want to make up for so there's people letting us down that we try to make up for the pendulum swinging

but the pendulum swinging means it's still swinging so you're going to try this and then you're going to try that then it's going to be this once you put this pendulum in motion which is set into motion from basically forgetting who we are which is in our center god in me right here god of me right here god of me right here i am i am i am clear that's where the healthy stuff comes from when you're wounded here by others which could be parents it could be uh siblings it could be you know people

from your whole life your current partners could be any type of situation in this life or other lifetimes for that matter past lives childhood current life all of that plays into this and it gets my pendulum swinging and the more wounded and the more consistently and deeply wounded i am the more i'm going to swing and look for the opposite this person all they do is say derogatory things i want a mute which which is is not commenting about an actual physical problem i'm talking about i want an emotional mute i want

somebody that doesn't say anything they just sit read the paper you know in their lounge chair or whatever and every every once in a while you're gonna go god you know some friends of yours you know hey have your husband come out to dinner we're all gonna go couples no they don't really like to talk every so often it'll come up and you'll think god they really don't talk they're not very fun but you're going to go oh that's exactly what i want because i remember that other so you're

not going to want to break that because you'll remember that other too familiar huh yeah yeah and it's important that we learn to see it and go wait a minute instead of just complaining that they won't talk which is true i understand and that's that's challenging and that's their issues to work on but why are they in my life how did i hire this person or this person i had a partner who wasn't into intimacy and they they never wanted to make love so i found one that wants to all the

time with everyone you see oh i wish i had somebody that was more faithful you mean like the one that was faithful that never wanted to be intimate with you you see this is what we do so i found some oh they're passionate but with everybody you know so how do i get the center you can't hire the center you have to find it within yourself and then it resonates hey here's what i'm about and you might be someone who says you know at times i i refrain from intimacy because i like to be pensive and go and

look into stuff inside other times i love to be intimate whatever they love to do and they can share it but the pendulum swinging like this is pretty cool it's when it swings way out here way out here that it's not so healthy especially if you don't know it especially if you justify it and say well you know uh i it's just the way they are instead of it's what i hired them to be so there comes to be a moment where god you know instead of oh they did this and they didn't do this and you know the

extremes oh my god everybody i'm so sorry for the hiring you to be a role instead of wanting to get to know you as you are i gave you a role and i'm sorry about that retire people from their roles you know kids i need you to be really straight a's to make up for the lack of partnership i have with your dad or mom no i'm sorry kids kids i need you to be there for me to talk to as my chill child counselors because i don't have anybody to talk to because your dad or mom won't talk to me i'm sorry retire people from roles

retire them from being the one that your husband wasn't the one that your wife was you know and so on your parents did or didn't do retire everybody it's scary but it isn't because then you go what's left everything this was all dead it looked interesting it looked kind of stimulating because one minute i was way over here and then i went to the opposite so that's called stimulation nothing everything nothing everything you know it's a bit bipolar but at least being bipolar i know i'm

alive you know way up way down way up it's like i wonder what blissfully happy consistently would be like they're still a little up and a little down there's you know but choose this choose this we we gave away rings if you didn't get one there in the lobby and the folks watching online find a simple ring they're a dollar to five dollars or whatever you want for a ring put it on your wedding finger right put it on your wedding finger i told you the story once i don't know which hand uh the wedding ring goes on which is

left or right left okay so she's laughing at me go ahead humiliate me um no it's true i don't know but but i did this when when i was proposing for marriage um i got a ring you know and i was giving this gal a massage and then while she was getting a massage i was gonna slip the ring on her finger and i'm like i swear to god this happened i dismissed myself for just a second to go get some water while i called back in my days you could call operators i called an operator and said excuse me operator which hand does

i swear to god and the lady was like oh that's so sweet she was like pity upon me you know oh you poor thing you know and i'm like quick um which roo which hand does it go on i swear that happened it was so weird but um we we urge you get a ring and look at the symbol of a dot or a circle symbolizes the perfect the perfect wholeness of god and just say you know what god which is love integrity wholeness peace happiness i'm going to commit to that you're not doing the i'm going to marry jesus like some religions do

they ask their children to marry jesus you know it's kind of strange because you know you just know they're going to end up with a strange life later on when it comes to a sex life you know can i do this or not because i'm married to jesus you know but you talk about guilt you know um or competition honey i'm married to jesus you know you're just not much compared to the lord he never ages um but commit to the symbol of what it is god but no don't just make it god what about love and integrity

happiness i'm gonna commit to everything the alpha and omega boom that's cool now i will not date people that don't resonate with that i will not take jobs that don't resonate with that don't make it a guilty ring but make it like a happy commitment and that is what we can make out of valentine's day there's a greek story you may have heard of pygmalion and in this story there's this king he's a king and a sculptor and pygmalion um attends a a love festival like a valentine's day festival that's

happening and he's observing all the people and he just goes you know i i don't like i all the relationships i see they're dysfunctional so he says you know i'm not i don't buy this anymore i i'm going to refrain from relationship which a lot of us have seen dysfunction and then we're like you know i don't want to do this you don't have to throw it all out but do own that what you see isn't healthy and then choose something else now what pygmalion does is he's a sculptor so he carves his

external image of a perfect woman and he goes god it's true a woman a man whatever can be exactly the way i would want an external person to look like so it's fantastic but then he realizes god that there is it is possible and these are the people telling you you can find your soul mate someone who is externally perfect and internally doesn't bring up your stuff so that's you know that's what it looks like so he he's like he goes to aphrodite the goddess and he's goddess please help me to manifest a woman like this

now aphrodite is where you get the word aphrodisiac so she's definitely a grantor of you know love and excitement and stimulation and passion so he's praying to aphrodite and she says you know what i'm not only going to answer his prayers i'm going to give him this statue that he loves and it comes to life so you know a lot of people look at this story and think oh my god it's about shallowness and and and some people go it's amazing he gets to have his step for life he gets to have this like perfect

you know whatever and there are lessons we can learn from it but one of them is that there is a part of us that wants a perfect image and a perfect emotional experience don't push my buttons so in the negative sense that's there but in the positive sense it also can mean if you get to know yourself and recognize the usual relationships don't work for me you can also own maybe there is something that can work so in the flip side he is manifesting his reality and that's kind of cool yes he's also

the external the image and all that so we can also learn guys you ask for your your you know perfect soul mate and and twin soul and twin flame by whatever name but is it about the external and internal baggage or issues that we create them from or can we learn to say you know what let me choose my own healthiness first and then someone that resonates with healthiness then do i need to have a statue carved so they're perfect because you know they're going to age that's the statue you're going to have

to start making adjustments you know carve everything down a little bit um and when you do if you have an image of someone being a certain way they're going to let you down so that's the downside to this but if you recognize healthy center healthy scent love passion this is what i'm about if you say i want you know i don't really want this in my life or that then include that in your recipe but don't order up like some people do i have it written down i want this and this length of hair and the exactly and then you meet them

and you get a tape measure measuring the length of their that's too much it's too weird instead healthy but what does healthy look like you get to decide but it's not externally based it's healthy in consciousness absolutely i will stay alone if i can't meet a person that's responsible communicative fun you see you're allowed to name some things but try to name internal traits mostly it's nothing wrong with saying and i would like them to be you know kind of a body type that seems relaxed and

carefree you know somebody and that to you might mean someone that dances great it's not a problem just don't obsess go for the gold which is inside there are a lot of people in all my uh videos and things there's a few hundred i think uh free videos on youtube and out of all my videos and so forth that are out there the one there there are two topics that that that uh i we the only two topics that we get any kind of you know garbage from people with negatives which is very rare but the only ones we get

one of them is about this twin soul soul mates and it's like how dare you how dare you invalidate my addictive behaviors and codependencies you know and i'm like wait wait what what's wrong because i believe in soul mates okay do you have one let's pretend they could say yes great then what should having a twin flame twin soul soulmate perfect relationship what should that make you feel blissful right great then why aren't you just basking in bliss instead of trolling my videos don't you have something better to do

are you really like oh i'm just basking in oneness of twin flame relationship and i hate you michael why why you're letting me take you off center really your relationship should be like man i'm just so blissed out there's no room for people like michael you know come on but whatever at the end of the day it's it's sad that that there's a longing that we have that pygmalion would carve something because he sees this stuff isn't healthy so he goes to that extreme what do you do in your compensatory

styles you know what do you do to make up for i have someone who does this and so i'm going to get somebody i am non-dependable i'm going to get somebody who's dependable but if it's extreme it'll have its symptoms and it's drawbacks allowing people to be starting with yourself what are you about what do you believe in you know you're gonna know you're doing compensatory relationship if the relationships are obviously codependent and irresponsible but also if they're rebound you'll know

you have unhealthy relationships if they're rebound now i'm not saying it's impossible to meet somebody days weeks months after a breakup of a major relationship and it not be wonderful i'm not saying that i'm saying generally speaking rebounds are going to be compensatory how do i counter that develop responsibility and unconditional love well mine doesn't feel a compensatory so no no no if you're rebounding it's just a general rule to say there might be some compensation going on

just maybe how do i counter it just in case it's there ah let's communicate let's share let's pace ourselves you see watch out for the addictive kinds of things don't shame yourself do not it won't help just see that it's there oh my god michael's talking about compensator and oh my god i have a couple of those in my life i'm not telling you to go home and fire them i'm saying see it and just go wow that's interesting own it see it if it's a pattern see that there's a pattern and change it

that's all make some alterations if you've got one already and you don't want to go home and end it don't if there's a little bit of stuff that's messed up talk about it communicate work it then you've shifted it out of here out here the compensatory pendulum to the center hey there's this going on can we go here you see like wow yeah i can see where i hired you i had an abusive childhood so i wanted someone who was safe safe safe and i got bored with that and i went out to stimulating i'm sorry

about that you're beautiful for being a safe person you're really wonderful for being all stimulating but i'm gonna go here now so i might sometimes you know look at myself and go i like a little safe and a little stimulation too a little bit like a nice balance this is not what you should do i'm saying that's what i might do so you might think about what is your center what makes sense that's not swinging too far out i would love safety and stimulation at the same time i would love passion and grounded at the same time

i would love to be prosperous but not greedy see nice balance i don't have to be over engaged in money and i don't have to be broke how do i get here well my boss needs to and my butt no stop talking about out here so you'll start off retiring people from their roles the second stage of forgiveness would be oh yeah that's right i was the common denominator or yeah that's right i can see where i wanted a little this and a little of this it makes total sense and you might even say god i kind of even feel you know a little

bad about and i don't mean guilt yourself i'm saying sometimes you might go i even people that were really not very kind or nice i can see we're hiring them i can feel a little responsible oops sorry about that yeah you were a little bit too aggressive and mean to me so i said goodbye but why did i bring that that kind of intensity because i wanted fire and fire can burn why did i want fire oh because i had this over here it was like just clay you know and they just sat there like a block of clay a mixture of earthy and watery but no

fire you know so you went got fire and got burned and now i don't like them and i don't like them what you're running out of elements you know you know what's left so okay you know what balance balance are you balanced don't be telling me about how you want somebody who's perfect out there are you there and that's why you have to forgive yourself oh man oops you know oh you know and so on and what's nice about this is at the end of the story we start coming back to when we've done

work with forgiving them for being this and this and for compensating for this and this we come back here and go oops and you look for your own patterns and you let yourself off the hook and then there's a point where wow the more i have forgiven them and forgiven myself the more peace i feel and also i get to know what i'm interested in and if i am going to meet somebody and they seem really intensely out here or there we we have to at least communicate this is what we're doing you know i can see that this

accountant of mine i remember a guy saying once i have this accountant or this this investment person they had in their life and i remember them saying yeah i wish they were a little more aggressive with their with with my money in terms of investing so i could get more back but i knew the person telling me that was very conservative so they were longing for a more aggressive investor had they gotten one and lost money they would have been complaining about that that's not being responsible i'm not saying they're bad for saying it

they're bad for not seeing it it's better to go that's the perfect investor because i really am airing towards the side of being conservative don't wish for own and if you want to change it then own it here in you and say i'm now owning that i'm a little bit more ready for uh aggressive investor then get one but remember they're going to mirror you so get right within yourself and everything else will fall into place and in summary i'm going to end where i began love in all forms is beautiful

even the most malfunctioning code depend it still conceals the longing for real love remember that and soak that in instead of shaming it you can learn from it and grow but don't shame it just i see what i was doing and everything is really a call even the most hurtful non-loving things is a cry for love so i can see that my my sleeping with five thousand people was a longing for love and it wasn't being found so i kept doing it that's you know it becomes a pattern a hobby habit whatever i can see where my refraining from love

because it wasn't the perfect pygmalion carving i can see where i played it way too safe and constricted love still allowing you for love it's still i wish i could find that but i can't so i won't do anything it's still extreme nothing too much and seeing that in ourselves and for giving others the roles and forgiving ourselves for putting them in those roles all forms of love i only ask this if all attempts at even romantic love is a search for real love that's fine own it and be okay with that

but then why then settle for anything but real love so let's not just make it enough that all love is a search for real love let's also find real love and experience real love and share real love let's get there you know at our own pace or whatever your willingness is fine but you know make the quest you know i'm fine with the love i share for now but i'm not giving up on real love i'm going to nurture that in my life responsible forgiving unconditional whatever form it's going to work for you

set your course set your course and marry the real thing okay let's take a few centering breaths please just relaxing and centering into the recognition in my life i have sought found experienced all kinds of compensatory love which isn't real love at all in what ways have you ever gone the minimalist can you think of any relationships that were minimal they didn't hug as a kid your parents someone didn't say i love you enough as

a partner or whatever or they were more interested in other people any signs of the minimal the lacking just see them let them come to mind the greatest gift we can give ourselves even on valentine's day is the healing of broken hearts see them for what they are and you don't have to know why they were drawn into your life just just at least try to own there might have been something there that you were choosing safety a lack of believing you deserved more whatever it is just own that something even without you

knowing what it is something was there note them in your mind and then note the opposite where have you had the compensatory opposite someone that was finally in your life making up for that they were finally willing to be more intimate or say i love you or give you more gifts or whatever it is stimulation they made you feel far more attractive desirable see we're being honest and responsible that consciousness will keep us from swinging into compensatory neediness just look at it be honest with yourself where did you swing out the other

direction more this could be any kind of relationship you could have had a coach that never gave you kudos at something you did in sports and another one that constantly praised your abilities it's still minimal and compensatory and then know that on some level it was in your mind the desire to compensate but the compensation is about duality two extremes that are not your real self forgive everyone for the roles they played or even if they refused to play both hurt retire them so that the hurt can dissipate

if there's no one there doing and not doing then the pain can go retire them as best you can i see the contract i'm sorry please forgive me i would like to know love with you unconditional god love with you instead thank you and let them let them be and then go to your center yourself hello beloved wow what a strange ride we've been on in this world i've given you minimal i've given you opposite and neither brought us peace because because neither is peace i'm so sorry that i did that to you

i'm so sorry i played that out with you that's not what you deserve i love you please forgive me what i wish for you is your center and your divinity then good things can come to you i love you i love you i love you and thank you thank you for hearing me and let that fade now and just a last half a minute breathing in and imagining what if you found your center what if instead of carving and soulmate praying and all that for for a perfect such and such what if we just find peace and then happiness peace as a wave coming in happiness as a wave

coming out it's like wow you feel so good just make believe that you feel that and then it'll start to be but make believe you feel that peace and happiness and then imagine what if every day you come out to the world and share that vibe with people i'm just a person of peace and happiness and you do your best to to wish that upon everybody but some people will pull out from the rest of them and stand out as somebody to share that peace and happiness with that's a healthy co-creation of a relationship some of

them might pull out from the group and be friends one might single out two might single out or whatever as lovers partners but it all comes from this beautiful blissful center so notice that there's less tension on the concept they could be there a day or five lifetimes all i'm focusing on is the love the peace the happiness and i remain complete whether they're a day or 100 lifetimes i remain complete and grateful to all the people in our minds happy valentine's day to ourselves happy happy happy valentine's day

and so it is thank you the light of god surrounds us we are the light of god the love of god unfolds us the power of god protects us breathe that in and know it's the truth know it's the truth blessings to everyone peace be with you all and happy valentine's day god bless thank you see you all soon