Mirroring: The Real Story

ah so how's everyone doing overall interesting times yes yeah and i know you know it's not always easy sometimes you know things are challenging but you know i never forget that yogananda once said that this is not our home he says you know if things always went your way you would actually get comfortable and think this is your home you know it's an amazing way to look at it and what he was saying was this is not your home heaven god is your ultimate destination technically of course in miracles then

tells you you never left there oh thank god you know that's kind of nice we never left and where the hell are we and i and i put it that way on purpose hell edgar casey's definition of hell is any place where god is not experienced which is also parts of your body where you have shames and guilts regrets in your mind addictions escapes denials repressions all of that technically is is a living hell seemingly living it's not very alive but um the world is changing you know the light has come what a great way to start this

the light has come now technically the light has never left but the light has come means we're affirming that it's coming back where people's awareness is coming back to that place and everything is always learned one of two ways there's not like like eight different ways it's one of two the easy way or the hard way the easy way is the one that makes the most sense the hard way is the one people most often choose which makes no sense it's senseless but that's what people tend to do learn the hard way the way of of

you know you have to do ten of the same types of relationships before you go oh wow maybe i ought to consider self-worth you know or doing an addiction for 80 years you know and saying wow you know this has really destroyed my life in every way i think i'll next time come back and do this differently we don't have to have reincarnation i'm not saying it's bad reincarnation can be beautiful it can be glorious in so many ways but it's also a way of stalling you could just be home no no no i need another million years just give

me another million years another thousand incarnations and i might get it but we don't have to the saying that you have to reach bottom isn't just an addiction that's that's in the world of this this earthly plane and that is we have to reach bottom means human beings tend to think we have to have everything go completely wrong before we say you know what there must be another way well at least we said there must be another way at least we did that but you don't have to suffer we don't have to say

god it can't get any worse you know which is like let's see let's just find out for sure it it's not it can't get any worse it doesn't need to it just it doesn't need to so for me in my own consciousness i've never understood when people say things you know about you know women equal rights and i'm like well i don't pick what do you mean women aren't paid the same and they need to and you fight for it i'm like how could you not pay a woman the same it doesn't make my brain doesn't go

there i don't actually think of religion or race or gender or it's not my in my brain to think of people as different i'm around so many kinds of people all the time they just we all seem the same in the sense that we have challenges and we have gifts so my brain doesn't really calculate calculate the way or perceive the way some people do but i do know that there seems to be challenges in this world and it's not god's will it's kind of nice to know that god's will i mean you have you

capitalize god and you capitalize will that means it's it's enormous it's it's this amazing presence that can't be beat god's will it's not like you have god's will versus something else it seems to have we have god's will and our will our will is simply a misuse of will it's almost like having just going to sleep and having a bad dream our will but eventually you wake up and realize it was only a dream all that really matters is the awake in being in god this world is a place of challenge but

today i'm really wanting to address the concept of mirroring mirroring because people will say oh mirroring you know and they they throw it around like a lot of new age terminologies and most often you know the the concept of mirroring and you have to understand mirroring you cannot wake up spiritually it's an essential thing to understand everything on the outside is a hologram of how we're feeling or believing on the inside if you don't get that you cannot understand responsibility you cannot be healed of anything you can

never practice true forgiveness as long as it's everybody else causing your problems mirroring is essential which is why i included a little chapter of it in my book on the book of love and forgiveness so you probably have most familiarized yourself or heard of the term mirroring when a friend you know sees you struggling you're complaining about something oh my boss they're such a control freak oh my partner they're just so whatever right and you have some really amazing friend that says well they must

be mirroring something for you you know thank you friend um that's insensitive of them to say it because they did not help but that's what people use flipping they just flippantly throughout these new age things to make themselves look brilliant and they're not because you just you know just say to them that didn't help thank you goodbye and i'll start i'll go home and think about what you're mirroring um but the truth is that's not what mirroring is people aren't that there's literal mirroring

and symbolic mirroring there's positive mirroring and there's negative mirroring positive mirroring is called transference when you have gifts that you won't own and you put them on somebody else oh they're so creative i wish i could be like them that's called transference that doctor saved my life that counselor is amazing that spiritual teacher is wonderful you could not perceive goodness in others if you didn't have it yourself but you're transferring your goodness onto someone else

that's not owning it for yourself which means you're mirroring goodness out of you and on to others i mean i'm glad you're mirroring good instead of projecting bad but you're still not owning it if you see good in me and you die tomorrow you're still having to come back until the day you own what good you saw in me follow it's just that simple you've got to become the good you see in the world but there's also negative memory which we call projecting projecting because that term

actually means something i don't want to feel in here and i put it on someone else same as transference one of them is i do not i cannot believe that i have that goodness and i'm going to transfer it to someone who seems more deserving so we use a nicer term called transfer projecting you know it's like throwing us a fastball at somebody it's your fault that too is concealing but this time negatives that we perceive and that's what project projection's about and so when people say mirroring

you're taking a fraction of a concept acting like you know something and you're throwing it at somebody at an really inappropriate time when they're hurting so if someone says to me michael i'm struggling with a person that's got x y and z about them i don't just say well they're mirroring what do you where's your stuff i'm not i don't believe in that because that would then would be insensitive shutting them down i would more like start with you know listening let's talk and let's navigate where

you're at gradually we can work towards a deeper understanding where that's coming from but it shouldn't involve blame and throwing stuff back on people so positive mirroring negative mirroring now whether it's positive or negative called transference or projection this can be done literally or symbolically literally is when someone says oh god my partner's such a control freak and so are you so when someone says well what are they mirroring to you that's only true and the literal so sometimes you are

a control freak and you hate other control freaks because they're overriding your control freak goodness okay so that's true but that's only a fraction first of all you didn't explain there's positive and negative transference and projection but also there's literal and symbolic and so i'm saying right now the most important and hardest to see in projections or or mirroring positives or negatives are when they're symbolic symbolic means when you say uh i'm having issues with my neighbor

my roommate whatever what's going on well they're they're an alcoholic you know how addicts are you know drinkers are see that's projecting someone would say well maybe you're also a drinker and they say i've never had a drink in my life i'm checking i'm muscle testing not even in any past life have i had a drink so your your attempt to tell me that it's me i'm just a drinker it doesn't it isn't true right do you see what i'm saying there it's not factually true you're saying

that i get triggered by alcoholics because i'm an alcoholic it's not true then you could try to stretch and say well maybe you're a latent alcoholic you just have been doing your best to stuff it muscled no you're wrong again so then where's the law of mirroring because laws spiritual laws are either true or they're not they're not like occasionally true then it would you know can't be a universal law the the law of mirroring i'm saying is factual and it's always true in this

dim in this universe so how is it true that the person that says this person's an alcoholic they trigger me but i'm not an alcoholic and i'm not a late in alcoholic what you do with the person is say close your eyes and do this spontaneously and tell me if you would what do al alcoholics mean to you what do they bring up in you oh and i've i've done this so i'm not using terms that i believe about alcoholics but i've had people say oh they're so you know irresponsible so it isn't

alcoholism that's triggering the recipient of that it's irresponsible people you get what i just said there that's symbolic now the people that are doing this by the way uh triggering us through literal or symbolic mirroring if they did not show up in our lives to mirror especially things we're trying to hide good that we project out or transfer out or bad that we try to project out how would you know you have issues well i'd rather not think that i have issues so i'll live alone you know now it won't

mingle with people you know that sort of thing that's not your salvation our salvation is to get to a place where we realize and it's it's a state of consciousness it's so amazing to suddenly go poof and realize all the world's a stage and everyone's playing their part but they're all playing a part in a mirror ah you know wow if the whole world's a stage if the whole world is a mirror it's mirroring what your deepest thoughts feelings and most of all your deepest beliefs oh it's such a drag such an

inconvenience honestly to deal with marrying because you shift from it's called being outer oriented to inner oriented a person that is irresponsible is outer oriented because everyone else is the blame everyone else is the cause right and instead wow if everything is a mirror and i'm not saying this is easy it really isn't to shift gears and go here you might be able to do it at the most superficial levels you know oh well you know okay oh look cute little puppy but it isn't just a puppy there's

something it brings up in you that's beautiful own it for me to see a beautiful little puppy i must have had some good stuff going on inside of me to create a nice image today in the mirror so you know thank you nice job at the same time it's a little harder when you see someone has been abusing animals and it's on the news that someone was abusing you know i can't believe people shoot i got to go back to that inner orientation what does that bring up in me i'm a latent animal abuser no that's literal

which could be true literal can be true but don't end there when you see it's not true and go oh i'm glad i'm not like them everybody has a hitler inside everybody's got an animal abuser i'm not saying it's it's there like active we're all one so here's how this goes in god we're all one we can't go home partially we have to go all the way or nothing because it's we're one or we're not and god is not a fraction of a being so for us to go home we have to remember

oneness how we're going to remember oneness if we don't own that hitler is within the one of us all it is is a hateful part of us i'm not like hitler you are what do you what do you not like well i'm not like him i don't hate people i don't hate races what do you hate animal abusers that's the hitler in you that wants to just destroy other people but i'm not like them harming animals you want to harm the person that harms the animals that's right and it's hard not to feel

that so you know what you got to do perfect yourself ooh that sounded like a song perfect yourself anyway um you can do that according to the masters of the far east that should only take about another thousand lifetimes if you really really work on it should only be a thousand lifetimes if you don't work on it could be a hundred thousand lifetimes according to the ancient masters you're not going to be able to fix yourself and say i got to purge out the inner hitler i got to purge out all anger towards

others which we learn now in the new dispensation an era of christ consciousness for 2 000 years it's been seeded we're watering and feeding it now the aquarium age we're start getting we start getting ready to live it and that means no matter how much i try to perfect myself the bible told me god is no respecter of man what it means is god isn't looking at you going oh you've polished yourself enough to be holy again if you still think you're flawed enough to have to polish yourself there's already a problem our

remembrance of who we really are is not by our own means it's not i've read enough books or i've meditated long enough like it's some some olympics of spirituality you know i'm going to win the you know decathlon of you know spirituality it's not like that at all you can be the most broken messed up person who finally gets it and says of myself i am nothing but i am as god created me that's what i'm going to choose to start living the remembrance that my holiness doesn't come from my

working on myself it comes from my acceptance of who i really am then my behaviors start matching that which is kind of nice so it's not like we just do the the fundamental christian thing of of well no matter what i do i'll just accept jesus as my personal savior and then everything's peachy you know that's the old religious thing of of you know do all kinds of horrible things for six days but be sure you go to church on sunday and everything's okay that's not how this works that's just kind of crazy denial and

it's not till you get to the other side you go okay i get it you know when you thought do i get to go to heaven i went to church once a week and it never worked so collectively mankind realized that and goes uh we better come up with another plan so what we're doing now is it's called the state of forgiveness forgive what you think you've done forgive what people have seemingly done to you forgive all thoughts words deeds that are outside of the light of god and start living as though you are as

god created you and that's your compass see i don't want to create my own compass you know who's talking when i say i have my own power i have my own will i'm i'm a god i'm a goddess be careful because the higher you hold yourself up the farther you're going to fall i'm this i'm amazing it's not like the deprecation of the opposite is healthy either it's no matter where i am in the scale of human being consciousness and so on i'm surrendering to god that remembers

who i really am my divinity my true holy divinity is way beyond anything i could do for myself so let me just keep surrendering to that it's two parts though surrender to what we are and do your best to act like it to behave like it don't just claim to be a child of god and act the opposite that that's the only topic jesus ever spoke harshly about firmly about hypocrisy and he said any time you preach spirituality and act differently it's hypocrisy so don't just preach it do your best to live it and when you

mess up okay and what do i do when i mess up love and forgiveness yeah just the oops mantra and get back to center here we go again it's it's kind of a beautiful play of staying here instead of swinging way out here preaching one thing acting the opposite just doing our best to kind of navigate the middle the world is a mirror and it's mirroring constantly all that i'm thinking all that i'm believing all that i'm feeling inside when i feel harsh towards myself or others it's going to show up in the mirror it

can't not it's what the mirror was created to be so there's one extra piece to remember about the world that's a mirror this is a majorly added complication mind you that is the world's not only a mirror let's say the world is here and i'm here the world doesn't just mirror how i'm doing inside there's a little thing in between me and the world it's called a magnifying glass that you know just was accidentally left there by the human ego because if you could see a little minor

issue in yourself mirrored outside you know you're a little impatient a little impatience is mirrored on the world which sometimes it is that's fine but the ego likes to put a magnifying glass so that major things blow up to make you think that your work on impatience has not been working if it's working then how could this be blowing up so big over here my guilts and shames about whatever in my life oh my god you know i i married somebody it didn't go well i did a bunch of healing work and now this person i'm dating and it

went horribly wrong i guess none of my work went well and the ego digs that loves that because you might have cleared 99 of an old issue when that one percent remaining goes through the magnifying glass it's going to look huge and then we're going to say this stuff doesn't work you know what's going to happen you're going to feel exhaustion you're going to feel depressed all those feelings that come from having done a lot of work and it not being fruitful so the world is a mirror but it's a very

cruel mirror so who did this if you believe and understand and mirroring we did god never said okay little beings hello my children hello listen i'll be right back crappy world crappy world crappy world let's see how you do that's not the creation story that was weird huh but that was not the creations the creation story is let there be light boom light excellent and these new little lights start doubting themselves well you know well this is great to be light but what if what if anything could go wrong because we're

new we're like children you know you're walking learning to be little perfect creators and this wondering like i wonder what what if and so we started creating so there's god there's us we could have accepted our oneness all is well but instead there's god there's us there's a wondering what life could be like if and all of a sudden the world becomes what a mirror of these thoughts so the world mirrors it's a three-dimensional hologram quantum physics and science is starting to understand

the possibility that it's all a hologram your eyes do not work your eyes literally see upside down if you study vision actual vision you realize why do we believe anything just study one thing how vision actually works you know and you go it's kind of funny because vision is a metaphor of vision divine vision but everybody keeps coming from their little broken self the one that's not turning its attention back to god going inside go within and find god instead we go out we wonder well if i want evidence of who i am

today where do i go and the ego is telling you whatever you do don't look within you might find god it tells you to look outside now you don't hear that voice say look outside you don't hear all the reasons it's pushing for outside but there's a reason it knows its demise comes when you look within because once you look within there's only god so everything's kind of you know done the story complete instead look outside how does it know for sure you're gonna do that it gave you five senses so that

everything's outer oriented as soon as you wake up you can feel yourself laying in bed you open your eyes to think oh look my eyes are open i guess i'm awake it's a funny metaphor you're not awake as soon as you open your eyes you're asleep there's only one eye that mirrors being awake and it's not the one you use instead you use two dualistic eyes what is that doing for us oh as long as i can taste and touch and feel you know these senses are lying to us god is beyond it's within

and beyond anything a human being can understand and if the closest we could come is a divine feeling okay i'm going to open my eyes i'm gonna look for god i'm gonna look in a microscope i'm gonna look in this in the heavens i'm gonna look in the oceans and and people actually do sometimes go there's gotta be a god look how glorious biology is look how glorious physiology oh there's got to be a god which is a wonderful little poetic way of looking at biology and so on but what's ironic is

the more you see with your eyes the more you're not seeing god when we say look at nature oh the philosopher you know nature is evidence of god look how beautiful oh look at the sacred geometry of a spider web look at the beauty beauty of the wings of a butterfly oh it's so beautiful that's all god no not really the beauty behind that is god the beauty of it third dimensionally is not because and you know this because as soon as that beautiful sacred geometric kind of spider web catches a butterfly where it sucks the

blood and life out of a butterfly that is not god oh yes it is it's a cycle of life stop elton john okay this is not the circle of life lion king movie song no the circle of life that you think is god that involves the what if you're the butterfly does that feel good no isn't that amazing how this and that no it isn't actually that's why you're told when all comes to an end the lion will lie with the lamb you'll know you're getting closer to heaven when there's nobody losing no race no gender

no age children because of age they can't fight back to certain things no gone only love you've heard me sing it say it a thousand times you're a shining star no matter who you are shining bright to see what you can truly be right shining tough for you to see what your life can truly be it's a chant at the end of that tune it's driving home a message you really are the light of god get that and then act like it and if everybody got that and acted like it everything changes because there's no me

against you there's no winning and losing no win lose because that's that's eagle world lose loses worse when everybody loses and you can think that the spider you know wins but no then the bird comes takes out the spider you know and then a cat gets the bird then the dog gets the you know and all that and on and on so that's not that's not the cycle of life that's the cycle of what death think about it someone twisted us to think that's the cycle of life it's not god is not death god is not

the end of something god is not pain so none of that has to do with god and i know some people very beautifully and poetically want to believe it so there's nothing wrong with singing the the rainbow represents the life of god the color of god there's nothing wrong with that because in the world of mirrors it is temporarily mirroring god's goodness temporarily just don't worship it enjoy the beauty of the wings of a butterfly and do marvel you know wow wow i mean like if you're alive you're going to say wow

a lot because there's so much beauty i'm not shaming the beauty we think we see what i'm saying is don't worship it see it as a fragment of your beauty and that your beauty is a fragment of god's beauty do you see the difference don't oh if only if only rainbows were always there that would mean it's always raining you know if only such and such and such and such this world things are going to end just see them for their beauty appreciate the beauty soak in the beauty but if you think it's outside you're

practicing transference a person's beauty the beauty of an event the significance of christmas the significance of a sacred service like we have all of it's fantastic i i have to remind myself you know wow we have these amazing sacred services broadcast all around the world people's lives are changing at the same time wow those people i have to also recognize they're a mirror of myself so i'm grateful for you and for myself if i were not committed to being and becoming a better and better person which i am committed to

you know i slip here and there but i'm committed to that i could not have so many wonderful people in my life how are you doing you could be in that i'm watching this for the first time i don't even know one person i like it's possible and then if you hear me say god there's ten thousand people watching online and i i love their energy and they mirror goodness you're gonna be like i don't even have one he's got a hundred one hundred thousand it sounds too far of a chasm no because

i'm part of you and i've already got a hundred thousand i'm bringing to you so if i feel good about something it must mean deep inside you also have it what's different you have to accept it that's all if i win the lottery today i'm a part of you and if you see me as the guy who won and you didn't you lost again the lottery if you see me as a part of you that won the lottery that means you're bringing it that much closer to yourself if he got it and we're one wow i'm i'm i'm going to have that any time

now it works it works to shift consciousness the world is nothing but a mirror and do hear that one thing i said please not be you know to not be too hard on yourself when you mess up something when you see something in the world that looks like oh my god this is terrible i lost a job if the world's a mirror can you lose anything it kind of doesn't make sense and if you look in the mirror and over analyze the mirror literally looking at a mirror that's kind of a big waste of time i'm just going to stand in front of the

mirror until i look better you know and you'll find most of the time you start looking worse so you can't over analyze the world and expect to to do well don't overanalyze it just notice it if i look in the mirror and go god you know i i've graded more today or i aged more today see it as a negative and it's kind of weird because you just made the mirror have power to make you sad if you've ever ever looked in the mirror ever once in your life and didn't feel gloriously happy about it you

technically made the mirror have power am i making that up no you just said if you remembered an incident when looking in the mirror made you feel bummed it had power to make you something and it actually does it's just sitting there the mirror is like why do you hate me why did you put a hammer through me you know why'd you smash me no wonder the bad luck story came in break a mirror bad luck for so many seven years you know why because you weren't taking responsibility it's mirrored karma so it's like instead is it really easy

to go wow you know what the world's a mirror if i look in my life and see good it's because i must be growing and i should give thanks if i see something i don't like what is that teaching me today what can i learn from it you don't have to go literal you can go to a deeper symbolic level if you do not practice the mirroring concept and do not take responsibility do not take ownership of the world you see you cannot grow spiritually really you can seem to but you're not really getting it without responsibility

you can't go home without being responsible because even if you could even if you could walk to the gates of heaven right now if you didn't know how to own it you'd be turned around and sent back to another lifetime welcome to heaven oh i don't deserve to be here bye you have to say i get it wow heaven is myself heaven is a state of mind and i must have that state of mind or i couldn't be here at the gates of heaven let me take ownership of my goodness that god gave me when i was created and walk on in any doubts to the

contrary back you go directly to jail do not pass go do not collect two 200 just back to jail which is the metaphor of hell so back to the world we go so think about that if you don't mind mirroring and i'm not saying it's just kind of an interesting concept i'm saying if you don't understand mirroring you don't get anything and you cannot grow so the flip side let's say we do get it we do believe in mirroring then we have to start doing our best you know to sit with that instead of cherry-picking

oh i met somebody nice to them they mirrored that i'm wonderful a jerk god why are there jerks in the world they should be more like me and i can prove them wonderful because i have people mirroring it except for jerks i will become far more the greater true self when i realize and and of course in miracles tells us this over and over everything i see is a reflection of me only my mind can create my reality my world now your new age thinkers they'll say yeah your mind creates your reality and they get into this weird like little

let's create new terminology and and cuteness too my mind creates my reality you know that phrase create your own reality again it becomes a buzz phrase that nobody's understanding you can't not create your own reality because reality is made up of my thoughts and beliefs not just my cognitive thinking i'm talking about my deep beliefs of who i am determines what i will see in my life well that sounds really cool and heavy until we get to something you don't like then it's not no never mind and we toss

out mirroring that's why it's so easy for people to to want to just cherry pick their reality create your own reality we're always creating our own reality what i said was i and we are creating my reality because just simply stated the way the hologram of the third dimension works is this my consciousness goes out into the universe and it eventually blends with our collective beliefs my personal beliefs our collective beliefs go out there as two wavelengths this is how vision and reality works two wavelengths

those two wavelengths create what's called interference patterns those two wavelengths cross over when they cross third dimensional reality is right there so if i go out and say you know what i want there to be three moons today just i'm in the mood but we don't agree there's nothing crossing with it the third dimension needs interference patterns as they say in quantum physics nowadays finally they're getting it but it needs these interference patterns where you have two wavelengths coming

together it's it's like saying two states of consciousness mine and ours now what if the interference pattern that shows and this is all done with with laser technology now they're understanding how to do you know holographic photography and all that but here we go into the interference pattern my reality and our collective reality and all of a sudden we seem to have one sun one moon certain cycles of life and so on in that interference pattern astrology is accurate parenting is this childhood is that certain things that we

expect to be eventually and at different points in time someone throws a complete different weird kind of scenario in there if i suddenly say i want to just three moons and i go outside there's not what happened because for me to try to change the us is a huge undertaking if we believe enough that there's only one moon it's going to override my individual thoughts and cancel it out is that making sense but there are people who say i have a dream there are people who who throw something else out in there in

the mix and it hits that wave when the wave kind of goes no no no for a while but eventually when the wave starts wearing down enough because you hold strong enough conviction for the truth of whatever it is you bring the truth enough it can change the way it's not easy then don't do it just become part of the i'll just hang around and wait for more collective beliefs to be my reality do that do nothing sit around and keep incarnating knock yourself out i don't think it's easy to be this person i really don't

i think it's you know crazy challenging it can break your heart to be this person and have everybody else telling you how wrong you are you know i mean it's it's this is how it goes there have been people like this murdered martin luther king jesus gandhi you know and people that have just worked themselves to death mother teresa and so it's men and women and of all races and continents and so on trying to be this everyone technically does a little of this individuality but usually we cave when there's enough

saying no and that's you know kind of heartbreaking especially if you're the person getting stomped you know it's it's not that long ago that women were not allowed to vote it's not that long ago we've if we've been here depending on who you listen to let's pretend we've only been here 10 000 years incarnating and doing what we do it's only been 100 years that women could vote it kind of doesn't make sense but someone had to bring that up it had it didn't have to go through hurt

and hate and resistance but in this world that's what we usually have happened so before you decide to be a god goddess before you decide to be awake you better think about it because when i when my reality is going to come in and mix with our collective reality if i don't know what mirroring is it's going to be far more challenging why because when i bring my reality and the world says no way i have to say hey you know what you collectively are mirroring my doubts so you're bringing up my doubts to work

on and if i can take you within myself and cancel out your collective insanity that says women can't vote and this and that if i can just own it if i try to fight you i can't win if i own you and say well you know what no i get it i really get it you guys are mirroring my doubts if i work on my doubts responsibly i can cancel out your doubts why because i'm part of you so i'm infusing the collective with a new reality but i can't change the world if i don't change myself why because the world is a reflection of

myself jesus never healed anybody of their problems he looked at the collective and said you believe you're sick and i don't oh but you don't understand jesus we're going to put you to death i don't care what did he tell pilate you can't do anything to me that hasn't already been decided he was owning that that mirroring thing pilate you actually think you're going to crucify me sanhedrin you actually think you're going to pressure him into i'm i'm going along with this i

stepped in i know exactly what we're doing i know you people how the way you act and react to things to truth and light so i know you're going to get annoyed and you're going to attack and do all these things i'm going to infuse in you love so for a moment the whole world went dark at his crucifixion oh we don't want that because that's the metaphor of like speak up at work you lose your job get crucified which is losing your job get crucified you're supposed to resurrect well i can't why

because everybody knows you you know you can't defeat death there's the belief where are you i'll just go along with it or you say you know what it's not insane to think i can bounce back from a job loss or a divorce or whatever it's not insane and anytime you have people going where where to the opposite remember don't hate them forgive them they know not what they do but forgive them also because you know not what you do they're mirroring your own doubts i had a crazy family messed up in most ways physically

abusive and this emotional psychology all that all that but i'm well aware it makes total sense if i say to myself so michael yes michael um that was kind of a weird family we chose this time oh you know kidding wow they're like the the best of weird yes okay so just just just if not call me crazy call me responsible but what if there were some reason it made sense to you that they were mirroring something what might it be well nothing because i was just a little we know you can argue it and then you remain a victim

and they remain bad and everybody's in hell if you want to change it michael how might you see it and this is one just one insight i went wow that makes total sense the little boy was saying i wish they would include me i wish they would but the adult spiritually the adult said man that made total sense if you claim that they were insane why were you asking to be a greater part of that to be included more to be accepted more does that make sense michael actually no so so then instead what did happen i was kind of

nudged out all the time and kept out all the time oh my god it's perfect so i borrowed them to come in so that i could learn from and not react to and be devastated by this and that and the other and come out and do my own thing like i'm the only person in that whole family that ever left the family that ever moved more than you know two yard doors down from each other you know this these people it's like wow it's bizarre but good for them that's great but had they included me i would still be

there doing what they do how they do it so be careful my i can't believe my husband my wife they left me my partner they okay what can we learn what were they if they were hurtful what can we learn what kinds of things do they do especially look for the theme not every action to get upset about but the theme let's say it was uh like i didn't matter they treated me my parents or my partner like i didn't matter and what would you like to learn from that that i do who brought that up for you did they

cause it or did they mirror it if they caused it there's a good guy and a bad guy and that leaves us in hell unforgiven but if they mirrored it i got it thank you thank you crazy people of the world thank you because everything i ever disliked about you shows me something i can learn own not the the heavy hurt dark part of it i can own where i was off not enough self-esteem not enough self-worth i also gained the ability to to know the truth about these things and share it with other people all of a sudden which is the end of the

story so to speak you end with a state of gratitude you would never think you'd feel grateful for people's hurtful behavior and as i've said a thousand times you're not grateful for hurtful behavior you're only grateful for what you learned from it not intellectually not not linearly well what did i learn you know like i'm being rapper what did you learn from having been abused as a child well i don't know you know and if you're not looking for justifying behavior i learned that this world is insane i

learned that people are in a state of fear and hate and that's not fighting that is not how it's going to change it so i get what i need to get i never justify someone else's hurtful behavior and call that forgiveness what i do is what can i learn from this okay be careful with that peace because that's the one that keeps people from forgiving because they think they're supposed to blame themselves well okay i was three i mean okay i guess it was my fault you know just and and it's my fault and

i shouldn't have shined so bright that's not what i'm asking you to learn what i'm asking you to learn is go inside and ask more thematically what what's the theme and what can i learn from this oh it could be a thousand things one of them could be i can learn that despite what happens in my life i don't have to become the events of my life they're events they don't determine who i am they're what i experienced not who i am now i'm going to see it that way the mirror and say thank you got it bye

bye the mirror resigns that pattern in that program and that lesson and brings me new levels of consciousness every bit of growth through responsibility takes me to new levels new heights of heaven let's take a few centering breaths please today we're going to share an exercise as part of our closing meditation centered breathing some of us have heard of the ho'oponopono exercise and just briefly explain just relaxed breathing ho oponopono is a hawaiian term but it's actually ancient lemurian

passed down to the hawaiians and the term ho'oponopono means to make right or to clear to bring the light to a situation it's a wonderful form of forgiveness because it involves what we talked about mirroring and responsibility to the point where we're asked to say basically the same simple lines you can change the order but basically i'm sorry please forgive me i love you thank you four short lines and the order can change whatever seems appropriate in the moment sometimes you start it with please forgive me i'm sorry

i love you thank you just it doesn't matter it's all beautiful but notice that when you practice ho'oponopono it means to make right but it means to make responsible before you can make right because when you do it you can see someone else physically ailing and say i'm sorry please forgive me and your head a separated self would say i have nothing to do with their illness that doesn't help them trying to heal others pray for others fix others does not actually bring true healing you have to join with them and make one

before healing can take place so we're going to take a moment now and let the divine mother the holy spirit of god to bring into your mind anything that could be needs to be worked on whatever comes to mind it could be someone else having a problem someone else's challenge it won't matter because we're all in this together but it could be your own could be financial could be health could be self-esteem could be an ache a pain a relationship issue let something come to mind and know and trust if the holy spirit brings it into your

mind it must need work done and if for any reason it's something you love in someone else that popped in that seems strange it isn't because you must be transferring out of yourself so we'll still use it very simple look at them look at it the situation yourself hear the words i'm sorry from your heart and then please feel like they're hearing that it stops them in their tracks it shock waves the whole world to freeze for a moment because a child of god has stepped up to the state of responsibility

and says i'm sorry and together out loud please one time i'm sorry hear the words please forgive me from your heart just quietly in your mind to that person or situation together out loud please forgive me which is like a clearing of the past the situation now we bring in something new in your mind only i love you you're not saying i love a hurtful behavior you're saying i'm centered in god and i am bringing love to this situation together out loud i love you and the words thank you quietly in your

mind and thank you is meaning i got it closure thank you together thank you hold that still in your mind and we're going to continue just one more piece i'll elaborate from a course in miracles things i extrapolated that match the ho'oponopono prayer again you're never justifying hurtful behavior you're shifting the energy of it in ho oponopono we said a moment ago i'm sorry from a course in miracles what that means is i'm sorry for forgetting your true identity and judging you as being capable capable of being sick

or poor or hurtful it means i i get it i'm sorry for our challenge i'm sorry that you did what you did or i did what i did i'm sorry for all of it sorry doesn't mean like some people say i'm in a sorry negative state it means this is so sad we said please forgive me just add this in your heart to them it means please forgive me for having projected my unhealed wounds onto you the mirroring again my limiting beliefs onto you thus co-creating these challenges i also forgive myself for i too have

suffered by allowing you to bear the cross of my issues or to participate in this drama with me i'm sorry and please forgive me please forgive me doesn't mean there's an option it means let's now accept it's forgiven we're breaking the spell done we said i love you and it means i love you because of who we truly are the divine in me honors and loves the divine in you this isn't in any way acknowledging loving some hurtful behavior it means who we really are is god lovable i'm sorry that we chose to be anything

but divine but now i'm accepting the real what is deserving of love and we close with thank you because thank you for mirroring to me that which i needed to recognize and accept my belief systems you mirrored for me i needed to surrender and refill this with the presence of truth the truth of who we are as we now stand forgiven by each other we also stand healed and one in god as god so the last 30 seconds just really feel like you got it feel like this actually happened something happened something magical

miraculous despite external things something wonderful happened and it happened because i was willing to step up and realize all the world's a stage and everyone played their part where did the part come from where did the parts come from where did the characters come from i wrote the script how my belief systems every time i've ever doubted in my divinity it manifested something a toothache a delayed flight an annoying relationship the loss of a job and so on having seen it i say goodbye to it i have the right now

because i stepped into ownership i can now make an owner's decision and welcome in god's will instead and we give thanks in advance that this is already making a difference in our lives this is already shifting the way we think speak act and what we experience in our lives on the outside i am as god created me and i choose and will to be the christ on earth and the christ that was punished and crucified that was done one time for reason the christ no longer need be crucified i'm the living christ that

gets to experience the garden of eden a beautiful world beautiful friendships wonderful prosperity the christ cannot lose a job they can only let one go that wasn't resonating with their real self so i need to find the real self job it's called my soul's purpose my relations romantic and friends need to mirror soul mates soul friendships instead of cell mates and so it is thank you so much yeah you're welcome making sense today good good let it make a difference this world has so many opinions of

so-called reality that's far-fetched far from the truth and we're sharing something really really beautiful i've never ever doubted that everything i share we're doing together you know i've never felt like i'm preaching at people i feel like we're spiritual family and we're in this together and and i think that's one reason why i see so often a great wave reflected back and then you know there are moments here there of challenge or discrepancies or disputes and that sort of thing

and it is sometimes challenging to go god you know i meditate every day i can't believe i can have a toothache you know that's how you'll start to think sometimes and you have to learn to laugh at that that was that was kind of funny that i thought that because that toothache could come from 18 lifetimes ago so don't bother trying to go there it's not going to help back to the peace of god well thank you guys so much let's breathe in change let's breathe in gratitude so many good things

there may be challenges in the world there might be challenges left and right all kinds in the world there always are but sometimes they peak a bit more why would they be peaking if i weren't ready to say goodbye to the worst of stuff that exists in human race and in myself i'm going to see this as a way of saying goodbye to some of our deepest darkest stuff it's mirroring for a reason i can i can not like it a little but i can also choose differently so in this moment for all the people struggling i'm sorry sorry we are

trying to learn the hard way please forgive me because i do play a part in everything i am part of the collective therefore i'm partly responsible for the collective please forgive me i love you i love you i love love i love that we're learning i love that we're going home i love that we were never even here this was a bad dream i love that we're waking up i love that we're getting it god bless us all and to myself to us thank you thank you thank you i believe we're getting this that's how

i can say thank you the light of god surrounds us we are the light of god the love of god unfolds us we are the love of god the power of god protects us we are the power of god and the presence of god watches over us we are the presence of god wherever we are god is i am we are and so it is peace be with all of you god bless we'll see you soon thank you