Letting Go of the Past

[Music] hi there this is Michael Moore dad and it's time for our Friday night spiritual insights with Michael Moore dad presentation so thanks for joining us we're closing a year then a couple days after you see this we're having our Sunday sacred service which will clearly be on the topic of starting you know a new life your new life because it's a new year you should be thinking a new life not just a new year and then if it's a new life it shouldn't be too similar to the old life old meaning not

just a day old a week old and like we're judging time or something old as in outworn unnecessary exhausting and so forth things that are burdens you know Jesus said my burden is light and people misquote what he said there but my burden is light meant it's light weight but it's also light like the light of God my burden my message my work my path my everything is all about the light of God that's what he was saying it's all his teachings are all cosmic more than they are what people have made them to

be kind of dense heavy judgmental you know and and so forth it's it's really their light or cosmic so he's telling us something well ahead of its time that you know hello brothers and sisters what I'm bringing you is a message of light and the light of God so I'm the embodiment of the light of God and guess what so are you would you like to dance in the light with me sure we'd love that great then any ads in the Gospels then do as I say do as I do live the Christ life you can't get it by somebody faking

it it's not a badge it's not a certification from a workshop it's put on the mind of Christ so if you'd like to see a different life you don't have to change everything I'm talking about things that are old outworn area or even heavier abusive to yourself you know just think about it don't you no no I don't want to give the impression even that I'm not aware that some things are harder to let go of at least in the illusion of life when people really grow spiritually they come

to realize that it really takes no effort to give things up if you're not attached to those things which is of course an obvious statement and it sounds so simplistic but we need not be attached to everything that we're attached to so things don't have to be hard to give up the problem is that people are addicted to living in pain I did a talk here once on our Fridays there's an addiction to negative negativity or negative emotions you know and I remember a lot of people were like what what no way and they watch and go

whoa I didn't imagine people are they're addicted to negative emotions people get even if someone tries to give you a way out of your psychological emotional mental captivity then we have something called Stockholm Syndrome you know Stockholm Syndrome is like you start falling in love with your captor you know you're the person who's persecuting or you know then when I say people in person guys remember this applies to jobs this applies to planet earth this applies to addictions it applies to people and so when we get it

when people wake up they're going to realize not only was it easier than I thought to let go of life's addictions life's issues life's negativities but it was easy because it never really had a power over me that I thought it did all I have to do is get over thinking that it has something that I need and then it becomes easier to let it go so there's two ways to let go of your old life you're your mother's control your father's condescending behavior your ex's you know taking you for everything

in court your kid not appreciating you whatever your friends betraying you whatever it is in life and don't forget also the things you've done to yourself and you've done to others all of these things are going to be dealt with by either trying to like up route take away like like cold turkey pull these things out of yourself away from yourself or you actually get over them and to get over them is the easy way easier way or easy way of letting these things go so let's be real clear about that we want to let our old

life go and to really be able to do that what what are we going to do how are we going to do that am I gonna okay fine I guess I'm gonna have to go cold turkey on my chemical addiction or I'm gonna have to just stop talking to so-and-so and I need to stop berating myself and just make yourself do all these things you can try and sometimes people pull it off but it's always easier when you first of all ask God's help like in a 12-step program you're you're recognizing you have a problem and

you're recognizing that you'll better be better off if you're working with spirit to help you work through the problem instead of trying to just do it yourself so yes yet get that there's a problem get that you're gonna call on Spirit to help you through it but the main theme in this context is that when you do want to finally go through it and work through it let it go when you do want to do that trying to do it while you still think it has something for you is gonna be harder it's better for you too like I

said get over the thing then all of a sudden it becomes what I often call inconsequential it becomes something mmm inane and worthless or whatever you want to call it and now in using a relationship a partnership for example let's say you're in a relationship or it's somebody you want to date but there's a weird energy to it there's a problem they don't show up to the dates they hurt your feelings whatever it is when you sit and think but they're so good-looking I've never been

with somebody really not good-looking this it then it holds something for you when you say oh I think they would be a wonderful partner love or whatever then it holds something for you in other words when they seem to have some sort of a magic then it's going to be harder for you to let them go because you've assigned some power onto them and almost always they're gonna fail to live up to that anyway but we assign these things to people and all of us have done that inadvertently you know you can assign

things to people that you just naturally love like your own children you can assign things and that's why it's a heartbreak when they marry somebody you don't approve of and you're like well after all I've given you I raised you I didn't then you're gonna marry that person you can hurt feelings because you still hold this contract and they're like what is wrong with you because they don't know consciously obviously you know that there's a contract that you put them into and they

fell into it because they were a child so they inadvertently just kind of got in line with that so we have to let go of the assignments we give other people you can do a tracking exercise which is a free download on my website you can do a goodbye exercise which is a free download on my website or is somebody else's version of goodbye exercises cord-cutting and all those but do whatever works but do something but if you do some tracking to see what's really behind it you'll find for example you might say okay I really really like

this person and I don't want this relationship to come to an end for whatever reasons you think they're good looking or astrologically compatible or my mother really likes it but whatever thing it is we get along well we're good mutual lovers etc whatever well none of it matters because it's all part of the illusion of life so you have whatever assignment you put on it now what you can do is track and you find out yeah man you know there's all these great things those are the frills track behind

the frills to something a little deeper a little more substantial what is the common denominator behind all the frills oh they're exciting and and they make me laugh and we go spontaneously we go places and wonderful intimacy you there's a bit of let's say the common denominator is this like Wow pizzazz you know and then behind the possess could be I just I feel so attractive keep going well then I feel desired and I feel normal I've heard people tell me these things in sessions you know I feel more normal

cuz my friends talked about having sexy or exciting relationships now I finally got one so now what's happening is my need to feel more normal my need desire preference to fill sexier and more desired is actually why I like you it isn't all the possess that I thought it was that seems to be true what's behind it is I have these needs that I've assigned and so the pizzazz seems to meet it that's like saying to you listen I don't know really the substance of who you are but as long as you fit this this job description called

pizzazz which makes me feel a certain something inside which by the way is a definition of addiction I'm missing something something outside of me seems to be able to fill it I'll try it and now I need more of it because obviously if they filled it for one day pizzazz and then never filled it again would you say and we should get married now that the pizzazz is completely gone that's not likely so you're really defining you know living the definition of addiction and that doesn't make you

bad what's important is to see it and I'm saying guys that the more we see these things the less hooks enter our being let me say something else real quick I can remember I mean all the way back mmm to high school maybe back even further maybe middle school for sure in high school for sure but that's you know as far back as I can recall anyway where I already started realizing that things in this world just it didn't do me any good to get hooked by any of it something was happening in me already

whether you call it good or bad because it has two sides to it I will say to you that to people in high school that that wanted to get stoned I wasn't interested and so I might have looked like a bummer you know a good friend of mine was was in a band his bandmates where they were close they were in a band together for years this is probably he get this is now him probably in his 30s and at some point the band was popular it was regionally it's probably the number one band in this particular state and some point he even decides are

we doing pretty well financially you know this band is doing really nicely that's great you know it's a more of a local time and it's not an international band but this is cool doing nightclubs and all that they're very popular making money he said well we're making money it's time for me to have a family gets married and best man and all his shoures are you know from his his wedding or from his band and within weeks it might have been a month or two at the most but within weeks they kicked him out of the

band reason he wouldn't get stoned with him he wouldn't do coke and so forth that they started doing abundantly that's kind of how this goes you you might be the clean one you might be the clear one the sober one whatever it is and and I'm not saying you're better than anybody or that they're bad I'm just saying that misery loves company and when you want to wake up it doesn't feel compatible to some people anymore and I know you know you guys are posting you know yes that's me

oh my god yeah you know that happened to me I know because it's very common and and some of you might have even been the culprits on the other side of it throwing people out that wouldn't get stoned enough and whatever because we've had those moments maybe of weakness in our lives where you know if people weren't kind of matching us in terms of our way of life promiscuity or whatever it happens to be in life you know then we start to feel odd we get it away from them what's really happening there by

the way is the shame that they already feel unconsciously sometimes it's conscious but usually it's unconscious you bring up them by you not partying the way they party and whatever that's just a generic term right now could apply to anything even certain kinds of jobs I've even had jobs as a that didn't work for me so it's whether you use drugs as the example jobs it didn't work for me I needed something that had made a little more of a difference and felt good in here and it was unheard of for people to think of

why would a young male be thinking about what feels good in his heart especially in the mid later 70s it's like what are you talking about it would have been foreign language to them so think in terms of you know you might have been on this side of it that side doesn't matter the bottom line is that when we want to wake up it doesn't feel totally congruent to everybody it doesn't always feel congruent and it's gonna look like a negative my point to this is that there's positives and negatives about

waking up about saying you know honey I know we did this together and that's it but it's not my thing anymore that's not easy of course to break such news especially if they're used to you being a certain way but you have to do it and and I think you could be loving and tactful and I'm not gonna do a talk about how to segue out of relationship because we've done that in relationships talks I'm talking about how to make the changes in your life how how good and bad comfortable not comfortable and so

on that that could be and sometimes it is very uncomfortable sometimes it is but but I'm saying it's uncomfortable because of the hold we thought it had whether that sibling stuff whether it's parental approval whether it's peer you know pressure it's there's something to it I can remember you know a friend of mine in middle school that moved from out of state to where I lived and you know we had kind of a very where I lived it was very kind of up and hip kind of place this guy comes from like outside

of that area let's just say I won't name places and he was wearing clothes that were really not this area that he moved to from really conservative clothes and that includes certain patterns of color and so forth that just didn't fit and he really you know took it you know I mean people really guys kind of picked on him and all that and yet he was a neighbor he ended up living across the street from me so it was like Oh God so I kind of for lack of a better word or phrase I took him in kind of befriended

him and it was good for me too because I didn't have any friends that lived in my my neighborhood didn't have anybody my age so it was convenient for me but also I kind of you know next thing I know we're having to kind of I'm having to kind of protect him a bit and keep an eye on that sort of thing and all that but I said look we'll be friends and we will fight off these kinds of guy bullies and so forth I don't have a problem with that but I said let's have kind of a cool agreement let's not fall

into drugs and stuff like other guys are doing and you know at our age he's like Oh that'd be great now I don't believe in that because he was conservative and all that but there came a moment where for him there came that crossroads where some guys were willing to sort of take him in on in the fold that the stoners you know kind of take him in a little bit more they were teasing him and he wasn't fitting but stoners are often you know outcasts and so they were like well you're you're one of the you're one of

us in a way all you have to do is get stone with us and you're one of us and so he did and so we sort of lost friendship in a way and it came back here and there over a few years but you know we lost that friendship the way it could have been and what I'm saying is the peer pressure that there was an investment he couldn't not be part of that because as soon as he not smoked it as soon as he breathed in acceptance he was being accepted where he wasn't acceptable prior to that so a girl puts out finally

and now the guy the boyfriend she guys she likes finds her more acceptable and I've known gals that got turned down by guys because they wouldn't you know as they call it put out back in those days they still call it that I guess I find that to be just kind of gross and pathetic and all that that we do those things to ourselves or to each other but it is planet Earth but we have to learn and we have to be the ones our generation man we're I'm playing a major role in Earth's evolution and it's not all about because

we do breath techniques that take us to higher dimensions which might be fine to do meditations and and lectures that we do it's not all just that cool cosmic new-agey stuff it's right down to brass tacks right down here where we say you know what the old me has to go like one apostle says I die daily are you dying daily are you letting anything go per day per week per month or no try it per year so make some new year's resolutions don't make 50 make any and try to make them at least a few decent ones good

ones healthy ones but most important ones that you'll do ones that you'll follow through with and you know if you if you name four or five things and you pull up three or four of them out of those four or five I think you've done great you don't have to go out but I missed one or two you don't know don't do changes that you're gonna hold yourself you know harmful for don't do that but do try to stretch a little bit you do some ones you know you can do and maybe try one or two that are a little

bit challenging even if you fail because when you do a test run of something enough it becomes second nature pretty soon it's easy I was telling somebody in a session the other day a private session I said it's like a stuntman the stuntman a good stuntman will do theirs their stunts over and over and over and or like go through it even if they're using safety wires and nets they'll go through it over and over and over to where it becomes like nothing it becomes just literally it's like walking there it's like no big deal

almost you know still there's dangers involved in all that but moving through it there's no accidentally there's you know there's no accidental hesitation before they make that jump there's no foot on the brake no you know none of that so that's because why would I have already been through this your brain rewires and says this oh my god this oh my god this oh that oh this oh no problem oh here we go and let's do it now it moves from panic - here we go and so I've said that to people even

when it comes to jobs and relationships somebody will say to me really horrendous partnership marriage and all that and I'll say you know maybe I bring up we'll have you considered divorce and oh my god it's just oh my god just the thought of it gives me a panic attack well hold it I didn't say get a divorce have you thought about a divorce oh well what do you mean on and on and here's what I'd like you to do for homework I tell them I'd like you to call an attorney oh I don't know if I'm ready I

just said call an attorney call them and get a free consultation okay thank you for the kree cop station appreciate your feedback click what did that do I didn't get a divorce you went through some motions that you don't realize decompressed some anxiety in you but it also prepped you as though you did do the deed the action and then you can go through it a little bit more and follow up with that attorney or another one hi thinking about and if I do can you tell me the next steps well you would give us

a retain could I give you whatever let's say a $5,000 retainer and and you keep it and it comes back to me if I choose not to pursue it sure see what I did is one extra step if this was a context of jobs I would say the same thing don't go quit your job start calling and seeing about others and what if and what if and what if go through the motions if it if it involves moving to a new town why do you fan what if I don't tell people I don't encourage like some positive thinking teachers they say just

just leap in faith yep except they're not the ones who are going to be catching you if you fall they're just saying these things very carelessly but it's also irresponsible for them to tell you to do that I'm not the type to say leap and just trust in the Lord or Trust and faint or nature the universe not at all I would tell you go through the motions so that it becomes like Buddha saying to people try things out don't do them because other people tell you try them out make sure they're right for you

so I'll say to you try this try that go through some certain steps emotions make it become real for you make it become feeling like it's authentic and it makes sense it is it is you it just resonates with you that's when it's right to go and pursue these things but today rather than be talking about the new life you could create which I might do in a couple days on Sunday so watch for that and I also have a lot of free videos on YouTube related to starting a new day starting a new life those kinds of

topics right now we just need to make sure we understand you can't start a new life without dying of the old so can you access the warrior within you and say you know what wow today's a good day to die you know watch some warrior movies man get in the mood you know I mean this may sound strange but it's kind of cool it kind of funny get out your photo albums man and then put on 13th warrior you know where it's a story about overcoming evil and fear and all that or whatever other movie does that for you I don't know if those

are like Star Wars or Wonder Woman and things like I don't know what you know you guys did but watch something and just sit there's cutting all those photos and have get rid of people get rid of things just clear it and remember we clear things on the inside and the outside and the inside is the priority so cutting up the photos and doing all the external rituals and ceremonies is just just helpful that's all it is is helpful it's not the real you know it's not their real enchilada the whole

enchilada it's not the real thing you know inside cut the pictures watch the movie do those things but also pause every so often and close your eyes and see what's happening inside boy I noticed that some of those pictures I cut with a little bit more than others why I'm just so mad at that person let's talk about that here the voice of God saying sweetheart why are you so mad what's going well you know and talk internal dialogue well the blankety-blank they did this this this this oh I know honey and I

know that doesn't feel good well thank you thank you for listening to me what you're not gonna get is a real god voice that says and you're right they're wrong and I'm gonna send them to help for you would that make you happy baby baby you okay we'll just certainly do know there's no good that's not God those bad people that's that's not God as you hear that voice you'll know that your ego is still infiltrating the voice of God trying to come to you as you evolve you snip those papers you're

looking at pictures you feel it you talk you stir internal dialog and then you start going you know I was cutting those with a little demon it's a little intensity and because I'm angry and then you'll start to go I'm angry because I was hurt I was hurt because I was betrayed and so on and and I was hurt but it's also a pattern of mine but they told me they would love me I know honey I know keep going tell me what else they told me they would love me forever I know babe and so why does that really

hurt as much as it does because nobody ever did nobody loved me Oh so see now you're getting more substance inside yourself that's that's perfect so you had other people do this yes so really what you want to heal is a pattern not a picture a pattern yeah I don't like that I don't like cuz I don't know where that pattern came from it's still not my fault well forget the word fault but whose pattern is it mine okay did you heal it when you saw when you were in your 40s No Dirty's no 20s did you feel it when you

were 10 No so not choosing to heal was a choice to keep the pattern going so who is it that you want to heal with the person that dumped you last year and broke your heart and it acts like a predator or whatever they act like all the names you give them what's their name again well it's Joe Blow or whatever it is you know man or woman male or female parent sibling whatever whoever they are bosses employees whoever they are and you realize I started with this oh you know anger and hurt about that person you

name them you got photos you've got records to prove that we're bad friends that will come over and let us burn pictures - with you - you know cuz they're trying to support the the hate those aren't true friends those are whatever you want to call them and instead you say alright so I was talking about this person and now I'm realizing from one person it became a pattern of many the many patterns reverted back to me I didn't choose to heal it when I was 10 20 30 40 etc or maybe I did some bits

of healing but not complete and and I get it you know I get it I'm not happy about it you don't have to be happy about it in fact it's kind of irritating to realize how screwed up we are I mean it really is kind of irritating but just be able to see it could then cry puke in a bucket if you need it to or you know cry pound on a pillow get all that out as long as you don't end it there no matter what processing you do to get things out and in the peace of God how to do that just you could just ask you

can actually access some of the peace of God by just going god I just can't believe the insights I just had man that is beautiful as long as you see the new value you had negative value on things that were hurtful now you're putting new value on things that are real like I'm valuing that I had some healing experience and I'm grateful when you can say truly like a spiritual gratitude that's called healthy value as opposed to addictive value so the other way now to start concluding here is the other

way to access some bringing God and peace in is not just the gratitude that I got something new but it's actually to call in the feeling of God it's not a big deep complicated process it doesn't take years to learn it there's no big school you have to go to just just what would you like to feel instead of what you did feel oh my god was sick to my stomach I was angry I couldn't think about that person without getting angry I wasn't able to date anybody else because I was so hurt in it

and on look at all that now what's the opposite fine I just I want to feel happy that might be the word that comes up okay they call it happiness I want to feel what's the opposite of anxiety and angry peace then calling peace and happiness two words POW and calling peace and happiness call in love and self-worth call in joy and abundance find what words you can wrap your mind and heart around and then call the men first repetitiously literally with each breath hear the words and so it is on the exhale hear the words and so it is on

the exhale do that for a couple of minutes and you'll start feeling a shift but add besides that in out and now add try to imagine feeling the feeling that you're calling it instead of just peace and happiness peace and happiness peace try to imagine it as soon as they said that I sat back a little my back started you know kind of relaxed and it's like as soon as I say peace and then imagine for even a split second you know it's just like decompress calling happiness you start to mmm you know I feel like a

little smile coming on my face it's like it just seems organic so do that for a minute or two call it in for a minute or two try to imagine feeling it for a minute or two and then give thanks and guys if you only shifted all of that hurt and hate by two percent it'll be huge because it'll be kind of like when someone's really really really really sick and then you know you see like on Star Trek type juristic movies Shh oh and you know the healing begins or even in modern medicine if they give you the right you

know transfusion of something you know they give you the right medication often you start feeling something shift immediately if you've gotten in pain broke something and then they give you whatever it is you know just using terminology don't please don't take it literally but let's say morphine oh it's something shifts and that's what it's like except it's spiritual and psychological and so in all that I'm saying today see the value lessness of what you were attached to learn to see

it for what it really is don't don't be like oh that person I can't live without him or I'll never get over what they did don't make them so dang important if you really understood they're nothing but an empty puppet and without someone putting the life into it and animating it it just sits there it's dead it's just lays there that's what these people are believe it or not my unhealed wounds I brought with me there's a person who's laying around that's the right kind of

mo and then I inflate them with life because I have unknown wounds and they've got just the right chemistry to play that out what chemistry I really like them and it doesn't matter if you thought you liked him or hated them it doesn't matter they still got animated by your patterns I know that sounds hard to believe but all the world's a stage and each person's playing the parts we assigned to them and everybody's assigned some parts and what's important is to see like not just be so dramatic

and reactive to those people playing those parts and and and again I said from the high school or middle school experience that when you really start seeing through everything you just you'll be able to handle more and more that more and more things become no big deal like they don't have power and when that happens you'll also start to notice you don't just have a lack of negative things have or a greater abundance of them that you don't react to but you'll start seeing the opposite peace starts to replace

what was once a challenging situation challenging jobs become like gifts like wow where did how did this even happen you know like oh my god or a town you live in to a town you're like oh my god I feel home it's it's miraculous the way these things work I also call this assembling so there's videos I've done called assembling a new life so sometimes it involves assembling I've written a book called the dark night of the soul and in a way when we're going through temporary challenges that lasts

a day a week a month you know sometimes those are just temporary challenges but you could say that they're like mini versions of the dark night of the soul they're still valued still valuable to treat them the same in the sense that move through it with all the same tools and necessities to involve with a dark night of the soul process and even if it's a weekend issue or a five-year issue head for the light at the end of the tunnel it's always always about emptying the cup and refilling it not just constantly refilling and not

just constantly emptying it's a beautiful massage so to speak of both emptying refilling emptying refilling and you'll find yes over time less emptying is needed less and less and less and then you start living on the right side of life which is I feel full like refilled but it's not refilling its I feel full and even then every so often if something hits you you'll be back to a little willingness to still do some emptying you don't say now that I live on this side of the tracks I'm never

able to go back you need to be able to every so often do the oil change in the car and the you know emptying of the old self it's just important draining the oil out don't drain half try to drain as thoroughly as possible whatever stuff's going on and that thoroughness comes from your willingness to do deep soul searching so blessings to you on that and know that you will be able to do it you have all that you need to do it yes some people it's going to be harder because what they're in is deeper than

somebody else's pit that they fell in sometimes more rain so that's more mud so it's you're spinning your tires more sometimes you're catching on that there's some work to do you're catching on later than you needed to should have so it's a little harder because you're farther in there's all kinds of things that but it is what it is you know sorry that your situation might feel heavy and darker than someone else's but it's also not as dark as someone else's we're all

in whatever we're in and we have to do our work it's in a way it's kind of a drag but if you really want to know the truth about it and you want to put some really good lessons out that you can learn from it is try not to get so invested in this world and it won't be as painful when it gets peeled away because it's not real anyway so it's got to go so just be a master and start letting things go instead of being just a you know a victim of life and having things constantly ripped from you don't

you know just start tossing things mentally physically emotionally financially out of your life you know some people get that I'm gonna go and give it all my things away and and go to an ashram and that's not a bad thing to do but it's actually often it's actually taking a compulsion to seriously what they're really hearing is the voice of God saying beloved let's practice letting go of things you don't need what their head tells them is I'm supposed to let go of everything where in fact it

might have just been one paned relationship it might have been one emotional pattern but we overdo it and we go you know out there and to get rid of everything so try to do it at a pace you can handle and remember also people are watching I don't mean that in the literal I mean that in the symbolic that people are watching when you show that you aren't reacting as much someone is watching whether it's your children whether it's the person you are handling dealing with people are watching and

they're learning from you and you're either teaching love or you're teaching fear teaching love would be demonstrating how to plug with God and do things right and guidance and deeper healing and all that and teaching fear would be reacting defending offend offending and back and forth and getting in the drama and trauma so what you teach will come back to you if you teach love love will come back if you teach fear fear will come back okay I hope this all made sense I pray you did well with it and I appreciate you joining so we will

see you again next Friday at 5:00 or 5:30 I think it's 5:30 I just remembered because my weekday courses are at 5:00 but I was confused those two times speaking of which we are starting our Wednesday night class now so it's our Wednesday night course and spiritual development spiritual awakening and it's some majorly themed on a Course in Miracles so if you tried the course and didn't get it you'll get it now if you love the course you're it's gonna take you to a whole new level I mean this is gonna be some

oh my gosh deep deep study we're gonna immerse ourselves you and me all of us we're going to immerse into this and at the end of the one year it's one year online course you'll be a different person if you only think of yourself as an outer oriented person you'll see some major changes but if you know how to look inside you'll see huge changes because the inside is mostly what we're going to be working on so join us if you can it's a love every week Wednesdays and five o'clock roughly till 7:00 but

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