Grounding Versus Hypersensitivity

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bless you and thank you because that's what finances this work all right so today we're going to talk about something that came up a few days ago in our uh daily program we have a daily program it's most days of the week it's called edenshire edenshire live on zoom and we have a lot of dedicated folks that watch every day and we have different hosts that do different presentations it could be on herbology or it could be on spirituality or god goddess development or or you know whatever you know soul growth of various

types so feel free you know to to join us for that but in that program somebody brought up i think it was a day or two ago uh the issue of being grounded so what i want to talk about is you know grounded versus hypersensitive and grounding means not just that you're you know dense grounded means that you are integrated believe it or not you know grounded now there's people that are overly dense of course very earthy very earth-based very material very primal um and those would be people that are almost overly grounded and you might even just

call them ground dense rock-ish um you know and that's not the solution overly earthy um and it's not to say anything negative about earth i'm just saying to be overly material based would mean like not having any upper chakras to put it in that terminology be like just root chakra and not any other centers no other chakras no other awareness no energy going upwards just down you know ground oriented and the opposite all this energy going up not grounded you know it's an issue so some people are saying to me you know

the eden shire live program you know michael what do i do and i've done other videos so watch those on youtube related to grounding but in a nutshell the more we grow in consciousness the more we learn to balance all of this you know uh earth water fire air and ether like just earth water fire air ether like beautiful just balanced and integrated just i mean that should just make so much sense already to have any chakra blazing you know some people are like oh i just want my third eye completely open and nothing else

you know watch what you pray for oh i just want my heart completely open that's great that's that's a good definition of a hypersensitive person someone's who who's uh so empathic they just take on everybody's stuff uh so be careful what you ask for um believe it or not someone who is let's say doing entity extraction or work like that you know uh house clearing demonic possession you know uh doing exorcisms and i'm just using this as an extreme example but people that do that work

oh my god they're so much safer if they're kind of grounded you see all shows you know on tv there's a lot of those things these days where people do that kind of work and it's kind of cool because in many cases especially the ones where they want to clear the houses not just the the guys that walk around in the dark uh you know investigating like sounds ooh ooh that's cool that's cool wow that's interesting and that's the end of this episode it's kind of never goes anywhere kind of

you know it's kind of like that but the ones that actually do some deep work it's interesting because there's often usually female clairvoyant very heart chakra so she's very sensitive so she picks things up and then there's a guy you know kind of dense you know uh grounded and he he helps keep it all balanced and she keeps it all balanced so it's uh that's one way to kind of look at how this this balanced idea works best except each of us can be fully balanced instead of needing someone else to do that which is fine to

do as well but i like that idea of each of us being completely interdependent and balanced so on another note to finish what i'm saying about grounding and hypersensitivity and all that uh the more we grow the more we would be balanced but the more we grow in all honesty it's understandable that a lot of people on the spiritual path are like oh you know this world they have financial issues or they have uh relationship issues they're on the spiritual path you think everything would just be peachy right

no because the more they're on the path they have this people tend to have this uh erroneous mistaking belief that i'm growing spiritually so i'm really growing and opening up more upper chakras so the lower chakras suffer there might be sexual issues or a lack thereof any sex it could be uh as they said financial there's a ruth chakra stuff or it could be uh the relay emotional center the the relationship stuff that's not god's will that we be all like topsy-turvy like that you know look at me upper chakra is

glowing everything else dark all it means is when you go to the other side you pass over they're sending you back to work on that get this energy up balance that energy you know so but at the same time yes yes guys i i totally understand i feel it myself a lot that you know god you grow and you have meditation or you it's like anything else that's blissful god is a very wonderful positive addiction although it's not really an addiction by definition i'm saying that playfully you know addictions promise something

they can't offer first addictions affirm they confirm and affirm that you're flawed and therefore you're gonna go seeking something so you're flawed you're going to seek something to help your flaw or your emptiness or whatever and it will not you'll find something and it will not be able to continue fulfilling it so it's a crash so and then you need more so only in the sense that we fall in love with our various addictions we also fall in love with god but it's not falling it's rising in love

it's like you have a meditation you're like i mean look at all the people that pass over for minutes and come back they have a near-death experience nde so the vast majority of them they can have partners oh i love my husband my wife my partner oh we've been married 20 or 30 years or whatever oh you know i got children as soon as they have this experience oh you know the clouds part the skies part the heavens open you know and and they see feel the light of god they're like what children like i'm there man you

know one minute it's like i would never leave my poor little poodle and the next minute it's like buy you know buy snoopy you know or whatever um and off you want to go and that's not bad it's totally understandable some people have seen beings on the other side that said it's not your time go back others have been recalled being told you get to choose today because it depends on because sometimes when we meet our ending it's absolutely our e-ticket time it's like we clocked out it's it is our plan time

to go other times our path has had a few one or more uh alternate exit points it does happen that way that's why some of you may have remembered feeling like you might not live past your 20s or 30s and then you did because you probably knew that there was a crossroads that you would reach that you might exit and the non-exiting could have been anything from a car accident that did happen but you lived or almost happened and it was abated you know so you know i i'm leading to one point which is that i totally get that you have a great

meditation and it's like why do i even want to go back to this world this work why do i want to go back to work oh god how many times i've done workshops over many years i've taught where people just like wow you know and it happens quite often no matter what i say because i try to warn people you're going to come to this workshop you're going to feel like wow this is just incredible amazing but then you're going to have a little hard time reintegrating because you you know there's all this bliss and

people and friendships especially um years ago when i had my own retreat people could befriend each other where you know in a in a workshop building it's different you know at a at a hotel you rent a conference room it's different but still the vibe is there the the usual pattern is there which is this is so amazing friends like this i i just revealed my soul there's nobody at home that i've ever told these things to or god the love you know and all those kinds of things there's just it's like bliss basically um

and then there's the people that call afterwards i'm having a crisis you know oh i can't go back to work there's no way it's not my thing it's not my soul's purpose what i'm leading to this portion of what i'm saying is all of that is the same i don't want to be here and and of course in miracles would concur and the teachings of christ consciousness concurs that this place is not our home nicely i sometimes are just things that you know this place sucks um it does this is not our divine

inheritance um oh but michael you're wrong look at how beautiful nature is god look you know as i look out my windows here look at my my yard is incredible green is right out the window you know right there statues you know little angels and wow just beautiful and you could say that but if you're gonna want that to be beautiful you're gonna call that nature beautiful this world beautiful then you don't forget to stop and say uh what about the butterflies that are stuck in the spider's web and it's blood being sucked

out of it is that somehow can you actually justify that oh well it's the cycle of life easily said what about when you're the butterfly and your ex was sucking blood out of you literally or figuratively you know whatever um you know sucking life force out of you it's sometimes literal and sometimes metaphoric but they they do people pull energy from each other is that you're gonna justify that and one in a million people do they they argue with me oh no michael everything's beautiful it's all you know

molestation is okay and rape it's all part of learning it's like for absolute numbskulls you know you have to be pretty thick-headed to think that humans are so screwed up that they need to be raped to supposedly learn lessons and the rapist who's supposedly learning lessons this is not god's will that's why people aren't grounded they come into this world sometimes and there's a couple reasons why people get very um i don't want to be here one is i've evolved to the point where

i see through this place it's not our home i get it so why do i even want to bother the answer though don't so quickly go honey you have to go back now after that great meditation just like near-death experience sorry but you got to go back and that's the lesson but the other reason besides spirituality is trauma so some of us have been traumatized as children or other lifetimes you come into this life sometimes with trauma and you know damn well this oh my god what what is this density oh my god my father is is

anxious about money and work my mother is not certain about having a child or or whatever her stuff would be um her emotions are un uncertainty about her marriage or there's a partnership involved or there's a an adoption involved so there's this stuff and then then while i'm you know lying in the womb you know in an embryonic flu and just it's it's a chance to feel like oh this is like from heaven to a pseudo heaven of you know not so bad but at the same time something's wrong because as i'm laying in there

my mom's watching the news so it's like oh you know or my mom's smoking you know and and if you know the sort of the science behind that every time the mother takes a hit of the cigarette the baby's heart stops the life force in the child pauses for a fraction of a second in some ways in imperceptible but you know so that's child's being like it's like being punched every time she takes a drag i'm not trying to shame you if you smoke i don't care that's your business but i'm

saying this is what happens so it's uh dad comes home from work he's all anxious again there's yelling parents are fighting it's like you know wow what is wrong with you people you know the the child you know in a way and so the child i don't i don't want to be here or mom didn't want me for sure you know mom wasn't sure she wanted me or she didn't want me they were talking about abortion oh you know or adopting me out oh my god i'm i'm feeling unwanted um the the pregnancy was from rape the

pregnancy was from an unloving sexual experience of any kind i don't want to be here and that's it's trauma guys trauma this life or another it's you come in with it and it doesn't it just makes you not want to be here so unhealed wounds can make us feel basically ungrounded and feel like we don't want to be here so what will happen with unhealed wounds how that affects our grounding what will happen is essentially is uh you'll either have that that wounding that's going to make you

it's going to make you either one of a couple things i don't want to be here so my ungroundedness can take a couple of forms is what i'm leading to but i could either space out and just kind of drift because i i don't want to be here so i just kind of drift and that makes you even more subject to or vulnerable to trauma and harm and wounding in this world but it logically you think if i'm not of my body i won't hurt as much so you leave your body predators love people who are not grounded

geez louise man come on stay here well it's easy for me to say stay here i understand why you want to go i don't love this place at times love spiritually yes but as a human man it's hard and i get both i get i have both and get both they're spiritual i get it and there's also the stuff of this world that makes you go you know i'm out of here so the way we respond to the wounding and the way we become ungrounded is either just kind of drift and float around or you become hyper vigilant which is also up

up i want to go so i'm like this one is passive drifting around and one is assertive hyper so you're hyper vigilant what was that noise you know i've known people um that i mean all the way back to god high school or whatever when i walk in a room i uh my type of person i'm despite the fact that i teach and do all this external stuff i'm also very quiet i'm very introspective you know and all that so i often walk into a room and people don't even know i've walked in the room i don't plod plod blood because i'm not

overly earth earth earth but i also don't walk in and trip over something um you know just being spaced out so i would walk in a room quite often in my life and um you know i hey how's it going you know people whoa they startle um which we could all do at least once in our life but still when you're grounded you're aware you're not hypersensitive you're aware like shaolin man the old kung fu show it's like shaolin you know so it's so it's like i i know where i'm at people around me say you know how did

you know that something you know some fell out of my hair or something landed in my how did you know i didn't feel it how did you see it how did you and people say this all the time to me for many many many years um i'm aware because i'm here i'm tempted to not want to be here like anybody jesus himself i'm tempted to not want to be but but i'm here so i'm grateful that i healed enough centered enough and grew enough to where i can handle being here yeah what would you need today you need

you need some rocks move let me help you you would like some waters flower let me help you you want to share a wound and a trauma or you want to share an inspiration i'm right there and that's i believe where we need to be or you know which is it feels good to kind of be in that place but at the same time i guys i understand it and i don't have time to go too far into this i'm just saying what you're feeling is understandable but where are you going are you drifting is that your means of dealing

with it you know and being ungrounded the the problem is getting ungrounded but which way are you going the passive floating or the hyper vigilant either one you'll get startled when somebody enters a room but one of them is tense creates acidity in your system your muscles your joints everything's just cooking it's just deep frying sorry but that's what it's doing in acid because you're on alert at least the passive one is a bit calmer and but sad because their their calmness isn't namaste inner peace

you know it's i'm kind of hiding and i'm kind of depressed and oppressed perhaps and so it's a it's a passive her reaction to hurt but no better no worse than the hypersensitive you know um that is none of that is god none of that is god's will for you we are made in god's image and god is not sitting in heaven going oh my god you know humans man they walk in the they walk through the gates of heaven sometimes and startle me you know it's just not the way this works the peace of god

you know is what we are what we're meant to feel what we're meant to be what we're meant to experience what we're meant to share with one another so please never assume that being ungrounded symbolizes your ultra spiritual evolution some people do think that please know better it's going to be from wounding and it's going to be that the wounding went one of two directions with your ungroundedness they're similar because either can be startled either as ungrounded that's right general

description but one is choosing to be hyper vigilant as a defense the other one i'm going to space out as a defense the spacing out is kind of like um you know you have your fight flight freeze it both of those are kind of like flight but one is really just leaving you know and i feel you know i feel for people that that have that because uh nobody does there's not like a doctor you go to counselors can help grounding exercises can help so quick answer foods that are grounding even below ground vegetables

but grounding but when i say anything like if i say drumming is good for you because it is it's grounding it's grounding but if boom boom makes you like you know space out not good gardening getting your hands in the earth man grounding but if you're like i love gardening i i start to speak to the fairies and then i drift off you know that's not grounded gardening you know um so get like be like an earthworm man you know get in the soil and that's grounding you know that's why earthworms are sort of seen to be like

the the uh the gnomes of the uh earth but i won't go into that etheric beings and their role i won't go into that right now but they're all elemental so connect with the element earth we have foods below ground vegetables and meats red meats i'm not saying you know some of you are like oh i'm so spaced out and hypersensitive i can't digest meats obviously because you're not down here in your stomach digesting you're out here somewhere so i get it but but a little bit of something like that could

take you down a little bit walking working your legs and hips man working them stairs whatever you know um uh sorry but i'm uh dealing with the it's i see that the screen kind of blurred a little bit um but um let me play with that a little there me are we now in focus so focus folks listen so um yeah you know it's foods exercise the hips and legs uh uh you know some people are like okay if you think exercise you know so rock climbing no because you're trying to go up we're trying to get you here not you know up

you know um no skydiving you know even though you're coming down no you're out there you're in the air no no swimming no you're not you're definitely not grounded when you're swimming it's like skydiving but in water you're flown you're out get on the earth okay music certain music colors rusts and earth tones it's all stuff that'll help rarely is it the case that i'm so spiritual i'm barely here you know that's rare it happens but it's rare i'm i'm just so

wow i'm just so vibrating so high i'm barely here um and it'll come to pass where all of humanity is going to vibrate so high that the earth itself will launch to another dimension so that we all go with it because we're in the symbiotic relationship with it it will transition to a higher dimension of itself and we'll go with it at the same time so being grounded will not longer be even a third dimensional grounding process but it'll be a new version of grounding but not at all dense dense dense

so i'm closing with that just that you know there are things people can do um some people wearing hematite helps or very earthy agate kinds of stones rocks you know please please don't be ungrounded and then be put in putting like amethyst on your third eye you know wonderful it's beautiful for most people but if you're ungrounded you need get here you know grind chew up something you know eat foods that did take some you need to get in your body sexuality some people space out but if you if you're really present have sex

slow whether it's with yourself or somebody else slow slow the faster you go the more you're out and that's fine to do for play but balance it with grounding balance it with slowing down so sexuality you know dance twirling and spacing no but some in your legs in your body oh movement you know and feeling what you think one the key the real key to grounding there's meditation sit by a tree picture your navel center going down to the center of the earth these are all great things you can check all over youtube including my videos

some grounding exercises but the last and the best easiest and wonderful effective slow down when i slow down i'm not hyper vigilant aware but i'm i'm walking slowly enough to know what the temperature is and that's an exercise you can do you're walking to your car you know after work or you're walking to a grocery store and you're after being in your car and just slow down where am i right now oh you know the air is fresh or or it's not it's smoky or uh um i'm walking barefooted or i have shoes

on what's the temperature by slowing down and asking where am i what's happening right now i'm showing up and when i show up i'm not only getting balanced i'm actually getting fully integrated head to toe be in the now is what that means but not oh i'm so in the uh now i'm spacing out that's not the now that's a tomorrow believe it or not yeah hope you guys understand in our uh you know um patient with my uh silly comments sometimes that i make my my uh jabs and making fun of some of

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